5 Powerful Secrets to Make A Man Want to Commit to Only You


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  • Melanie

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Adam, this is the best video I’ve ever seen about commitment and relationships. I now know exactly what I need to do. You’re incredible.

    • Pauline Smitj

      Reply Reply May 13, 2016

      So heartbroken right now. Lost the love of my life a month ago. This is helping me to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

      • Deena

        Reply Reply May 30, 2019

        That was the cheesiest, basic video I have seen. I seriously hope no one is paying money for his “advice”. Smh

        • Fe Pahamtang

          Reply Reply September 5, 2019

          Adam, this is an incredible video. It empowers me as a woman in how to handle my recent relationship. He is sometimes distant and emotionally unavailable. With this video it helped me how to address my issue. Thank you for being an incredible coach!

          • Yvonne

            June 8, 2020

            Where have you been all my life,why did I find about you know…this video could have saved me from my past toxic relationships

      • Loo

        Reply Reply June 9, 2019

        Ohhh my gosh I need this in my life so much

      • Lisa

        Reply Reply July 8, 2019

        I am loving Adam’s advice.

      • Patricia

        Reply Reply July 27, 2019

        Thanks for the information very informative

      • Pati

        Reply Reply August 2, 2019

        And choosing ‘W’
        Know my Worth
        Perfect 1st step
        Thank you Adam!

      • Yulreeka

        Reply Reply October 14, 2019

        I missed this video. Would love to be able to watch it. I just lost an amazing guy whom I could really see a future with but he started getting distant and I found out he started seeing someone else. I’m so disappointed that he gave up on us so easily when he was the one who persued me

      • Rosebilla

        Reply Reply June 29, 2020

        Hi, I am heart broken right now. I had a relationship.. I meet his family.. he introduced me to them as a friend.. I know from the start, sadly I cought him he has a lot of women, and at this moment one of his women is pregnant.. his sister knows it.. we have a great relationship with his sister. But he and his sister never discuss me regarding this matter.

        Right know I’m still in his house pretending I didn’t know anything. I loved him so much and I want to understand him.

        What should I do Adam?
        Please help me. I’m in pain right know.

    • Melinda Spencer

      Reply Reply September 22, 2017

      Enjoyed this video.
      Thank you so much
      I am ready to start using the
      Power system now

      • Monalisa

        Reply Reply November 5, 2020

        Adam you have made me realise a lot of things l wasn’t aware of. You the best

    • Lisa

      Reply Reply August 28, 2018

      Thanks Adam…i need this.

      • J

        Reply Reply June 4, 2019

        how come y every video u sent, none can’t be opened? I think my phone can only open YouTube format… huff..😪

        • Maria

          Reply Reply February 25, 2020

          My worth!!!! Looking back I think that’s where I’ve gone wrong.

        • Sue Stewart

          Reply Reply July 2, 2020

          This is what i need confidence

    • Elizabeth

      Reply Reply August 30, 2019

      Choosing to work on my self worth! If I am not happy with my entire self how then can anyone else be happy with me! Thank you Adam

      • Erin

        Reply Reply September 10, 2019

        Exactly. I’m realizing that no matter what I’m going to work for what.i want in life. I’m good with that because if I didn’t earn it I’m certainly not going to appreciate it. And that’s why i don’t really need to watch the video. My dad tried to teach me that through words, but I learn best by trial and error.

    • Stephanie

      Reply Reply September 3, 2019

      Great advice

    • Ronique

      Reply Reply September 14, 2019

      This is good! Actually having him in “that spot” sincerely 💏❤

    • Lisa

      Reply Reply June 7, 2020

      Wow i’m 51 y old who has been single for 20 years have tried on line dating . Am talking to a man at the moment (about a month ) it was going well until last weekend when with a few drinks on him started sexting .me. But the next day nothing . I told him i was confused about what he was looking for . Things are a bit strained . Unsure what to do now . Do i open up or just leave it .

  • Jackie

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    This touched my soul. I know I deserve so much and I’m a very caring person. I’m ready to use the POWER system 🙂

  • Char

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Thanks for taking the time to create this program! It is right on time and will make navigating the dating scene less frustrating. I love the focus on self worth. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!

  • Katrijn

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Dear Adam,

    Thank you very much for the empowerment. I really appreciate your knowledge and giving this information for free. Thank you again and I wish you a lot of success with your new program.

    • Yan2

      Reply Reply May 3, 2019

      I will try to use your advice. thank you karl.
      Me Im in long distance relationship..still hoping he loves me but he never message me if i can’t give him a message.he always told me that he’s busy.he only send me his photo.I ask him if he need me he told me yes then with an emoji kiss.Is he possibly love me?

      • Janviere

        Reply Reply May 10, 2019

        How are you and can I have your phone number

      • Alina

        Reply Reply March 19, 2020

        Oh..Well,interesting facts

    • 🙏🏼

      Reply Reply June 28, 2019

      Thank you .

  • Stephanie

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Great video Adam. Living your best life IS all about a shift in awareness and thought, which you articulate well. I like your POWER acronym. The tools that you outline are a great foundation for each aspect of anyone life. I’m looking forward to your next video in the series. I’m excited for where you journey leads you.

  • giggle

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Thanks for the great advice

  • Leonor

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Adam nice touch with the outdoor scenery and the suit. Loved the comment…men commit if being with you is more positive than being single. I was a bride but now living a separation (husband disconnected and he has chosen to focus elsewhere). Excited about the next phase of my life and one day being with a man that cherishes me and my two little girls!!

  • Christine

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Great video <3

    • Brandy

      Reply Reply March 10, 2018

      Yes, a VERY good video!!!!

  • Tasmin

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Hi Adam, this video resonates so much with me. I cant believe how much of a dope ive been and relinquished my power to guys who never earned anything from me and yet I gave so much to them! Doh! I guess it boiles down to selfworth. I need a kick up the ass, which by watching this video I think I just received it!
    Thank you Adam ????

    • JackyLu

      Reply Reply September 11, 2016

      You are not by yourself. He used his left to kick me with. Time to work on My Worth first.
      Thank you.

    • Sandra Maatman

      Reply Reply September 1, 2019

      Im in a relationship but all he want is sex no calls or texts until he wants to ok i he doesn’t tell me how he feels about me and be up other womam

  • Andrea

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Great video

  • Monia

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    Adam, I love the way you explain things

  • Gina

    Reply Reply April 26, 2016

    I am a big fan for a long time! Even though I am so appreciative for having a great man in my life for some time now , I still follow your videos for any extra advise to keep myself in check. You always make me laugh with your costumes. Keep up the excellent work !!

  • Jen

    Reply Reply April 27, 2016

    Right on!

  • debbie

    Reply Reply April 27, 2016

    Great video. For me, the qualities I bring to a relationship are honesty, integrity and open mindedness. You have to be willing to love… Sometimes its not so easy to do… But always worth the experience. Just never know what the future holds.????

  • Cheryl Dumlao

    Reply Reply April 27, 2016

    After my divorce, I felt like I was thrown at the wolves with no manual on dating. Had I not known Adam’s amazing videos, I would’ve made the same stupid mistakes over and over and over again. I enjoy dating now than I ever had in my 20s. It is challenging and painful, but there is more growth and opportunity because Adam taught me how to cut my losses and choose my battles. His texts in his “Love Texting” book work like a charm. I highly recommend this to every woman out there whether you are single and still in the dating pool or in a committed relationship. You will not regret it 🙂 More power to you, Adam!

  • Vera

    Reply Reply April 27, 2016

    Always interesting information. So much of it is common sense, but needs to be presented in that “logical”manner, which points out the obvious we are missing while we are “emotional”. Many thanks!

  • Laura

    Reply Reply April 27, 2016

    This is your best video yet!

  • Sue

    Reply Reply April 27, 2016

    Such great advice… I’ve only begun to experience my power with men over the past year. You are absolutely correct… the more I value myself and stick to what it is I’m looking for (which is a committed, loving relationship), I find the more I have men chasing me! 🙂

  • flory

    Reply Reply April 27, 2016

    Thank you for giving us pattern of searching good partner ….So help me God.

  • LS

    Reply Reply April 27, 2016

    Thank you Adam for such wonderful advice. This is exactly what I was looking for! So excited for more information!

  • Sophie Mulally

    Reply Reply April 28, 2016

    Great video and Advice. I am 21 and I always end up with the wrong guys and notice by watching your videos i learnt alot.

  • NF

    Reply Reply April 28, 2016

    I love this and need it and want it. All this stuff I never knew!

    • Karan kumar

      Reply Reply May 7, 2018

      I love you

      • Lori

        Reply Reply April 3, 2021

        I just had to say something that l leaved.
        Im sorry but you gave him the key to drive your car.aka sex. You didnt check him out fully before you had sex with him. So he feels he has all access to you only to sex. You jump and gave him your car. Any and every time he ask. You told him it was okay by you actions. Try this . stop being available so much and see where his head space is. See if he take you out.etc. with out sex. Dont be afraid that you will lose him if you do give him sex. You can lose what you never had.
        Fall back a little. Know your worth. Maybe right now he just see you only for sex. You know until you. Stop being so available
        That was my problem. When. I stop being so available. He began to question. Started missing me. That when l told him l wanted more. We began talking. Now it no longer a sex thing. But be carful when the sex has change. You have to know your reasons why you want him and long term want to do with him. You may find out it was him with the sex. But you too desired the sex just as much as him abd that was your common denominator

  • P

    Reply Reply April 28, 2016

    Thanks so much for the free video! <3 Always a struggle to balance the emotion and logic as I am a very analytical person… i tend to shut down or anticipate what the outcome of me expressing my feelings will be…. I wrote all of this down and hope to try to implement each step a bit better in my dating life.

  • Nords Will

    Reply Reply April 28, 2016

    Amazing and timely advise. You are awesome and that is why you are so successful! Thanks a million for always helping us women to navigate the jungle of the dating world.

  • Pat

    Reply Reply April 28, 2016

    I would like to learn more about POWER

  • Nancy

    Reply Reply April 28, 2016


    You walk your talk and guide women and men with clear approaches to achieving the results we all want. I enjoyed your Casual To Committed POWER Blueprint will keep it as a reminder –
    P – Protect Your Heart from the wrong guy(s).
    O – Open your heart to the right guy(s).
    W – Realize your self-worth
    E – Make him Earn your worth
    R – Stay Rational about your Love Life
    This is sheer POWER.– POWER IS KNOWLEDGE.

    All my best, Nancy

  • Agnes

    Reply Reply April 29, 2016

    This is very insightful and empowering. Empowering not to the point of manipulating men but to hold the power within to reach your goal.
    Thank you for this helpful video and thank you, Adam for sharing your expertise on this area. Look forward for more.

  • Kathleen

    Reply Reply April 29, 2016

    Thanks Adam you are awesome

    • Sue ♡

      Reply Reply May 8, 2019

      This is awesome staff very powerful thanks Coach Adam.
      I really want to work on the last three letters

  • Pam Adkisson

    Reply Reply April 30, 2016

    Great content!! Thank you!

    • Bernadette Lentschke

      Reply Reply April 4, 2020

      Giving this a try. I am a 73 year old young at heart. Would like to meet a nice gentleman. WOW times sure have changed. Enjoyed what I watched. HELP.

  • Jenn

    Reply Reply April 30, 2016

    Great video. I am going on a date tonight. I am going to use POWER principles. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve

  • Stephanie

    Reply Reply May 1, 2016

    Thank you for sharing. This is so needed and I hope it will work for me. I am sick of being alone. Hopefully this will work and make me happy again.

  • Amy

    Reply Reply May 1, 2016


    A big thing for me is the way you break down men’s behavior so we can better understand what’s going on. Our culture has changed so much and I’ve really heard any other male voice step up and explain what’s going on. Looking forward to meeting him. I know one day I will and I’ll be ready!

  • Micbele

    Reply Reply May 2, 2016

    Watching this video again, after week 2, reminding me that it’s ok to be enotional and feel, but rational about my worth was the shot in the arm. I went out on date 3, invested and too into the ‘what if’. It really helped me to realize that I will give too much too soon, get hurt, resent, have black heart…wait and repeat. No more. I’m aware now….looking forward to how this works.
    Glad I found this video series.

  • Zinnal patel

    Reply Reply May 2, 2016

    Lovely video Really talks about giving that power to women…Really a big thanx dude…u rock

  • Christine

    Reply Reply May 3, 2016

    Great use of an acronym Adam. A little too wordy prior to getting to the crux of the plan.Thank you for your encouragement!

  • Kate

    Reply Reply May 4, 2016

    Great video!

  • Ngoc

    Reply Reply May 4, 2016

    Thank you so much for your very useful tips, that makes me feel so better now and more confident in my next relationship because I have more knowledge on men and raltionship 🙂
    I have to sign up your coaching when I’m in new relationship and want my next relationship to be successful.

  • Ame

    Reply Reply May 5, 2016

    Thanks for this! I’m hoping to start right away!

  • laura guyon

    Reply Reply May 6, 2016

    Hi Adam,

    I really enjoy this video,your advices are very precious.
    Where can we have more informations about the “make him earn your worth” part, which seems to me the most difficult to apply?
    (sorry for my english i’m french)

    Keep going 🙂

  • Andrea

    Reply Reply May 6, 2016

    Great information can’t believe what I have learned so far!!

  • Liz

    Reply Reply May 7, 2016

    Great video…i needed to hear that!!!

  • Jennifer

    Reply Reply May 7, 2016

    Free blueprint download doesn’t work!

  • Bijou Monga

    Reply Reply May 9, 2016

    Great video

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    Reply Reply May 10, 2016


  • Dawn

    Reply Reply May 10, 2016

    Adam, you hit the nail on the head in so many ways. Everything you said was spot on with the guys I was dating and how I was being treated, guts being emotionally unavailable and how I end up getting hurt. I will be following the 5 steps.

  • Melissa

    Reply Reply May 10, 2016

    Thanks for this Adam! Love your style and your advice! What do I bring to a relationship? Lots of fun, passion, and positive energy!! 🙂

  • Kim

    Reply Reply May 13, 2016

    I need to ask a question! If he’s dating someone long-distance for two years and it one time I had a brain, but things got sidetracked we started not to get along, but I’m trying to make it work again the second time, I need advice!

  • Kim

    Reply Reply May 13, 2016

    Had a ring! Voice text is horrible!

  • Bridgett

    Reply Reply May 15, 2016

    Thank you!.. im so excited to start this.
    My worth, i do know is amazing! I bring everything to the table. Im very independent. I take care of everything for my kids and i. I live nicely, clean, have a great career and need nothing. But I’d like to find someone that makes me laugh, appreciates all that i do, talks to me about any problems, and hugs me. I believe in being friends.
    Thank you

  • Brandace

    Reply Reply May 16, 2016

    This has really helped me with personal development. ???? The perspectives I don’t always remember, are so appreciated.

    • Karan kumar

      Reply Reply May 7, 2018

      OK I am ready

  • Alyssa

    Reply Reply May 18, 2016

    Awesome video!

  • marie

    Reply Reply May 19, 2016

    I’m 67 years old and I learned lots from your video Adam. I am woman and powerful. Thanks Adam

  • Reni

    Reply Reply May 20, 2016

    This video has hit home on a lot of levels. I will be waiting for the next videos to come out soon.

    Thanks, Adam

  • Heidi

    Reply Reply May 20, 2016

    This video helps me see I am truly failing to protect my heart. Married, to a man who cheats/separated, and he doesn’t want to be with me/pregnant with our third child/and desperately trying to hold on, which has been pushing him further. For now, I’m just trying to heal, I do want my little family together – but not at the cost of my worth and happiness. I’ll keep watching to see what I can learn.

  • kendra playfoot

    Reply Reply May 21, 2016

    cant wait to start trying this out!!

  • Beatriz Torres

    Reply Reply May 22, 2016

    I loved this … I will start doing this from now on

  • Carey Campbell

    Reply Reply May 22, 2016

    This has been helpful! The man I am deeply in love with has told me that he isn’t ready. Now, he is going through a divorce and lives 4 hours away, so it has been difficult to spend time together. We were friends for 11 years before we took the step to attempt a relationship. In fact, he has even said he loves me and I am his best friend. That’s what makes his sudden “I’m not ready” declaration that much more confusing!

  • W

    Reply Reply May 24, 2016

    You are right on target and I look forward to learning more thank you

  • W

    Reply Reply May 24, 2016

    You are right on target can’t wait to learn more. looking forward to it thanks

  • Yep

    Reply Reply May 27, 2016

    Let’s give it a go

  • Wharton

    Reply Reply May 28, 2016

    OMG! I needed this information in my life now I just have to apply it. I’m so ready to settle down. I been friends with a guy for 5 years that I think is confused, so I’m not sure if he’s the one for me.

    • Mary Hien

      Reply Reply July 12, 2019

      Wonderful Blueprint of Love <3

  • Delilah

    Reply Reply May 28, 2016

    i’m a survivor, compassionate, artsy, animal lover, I am a great listener

  • Carole

    Reply Reply May 29, 2016

    POWER in a relationship needs to be mutual. I realize it’s an acronym for behavior. I think there needs to be more focus on self-worth … what if you realize this guy’s self worth is lacking? I spoke to him about it & he thought I was fanning his ego… yet he agree that he was “not confidant” in himself. I let him go, glad I did too because he went back to his ex-wife !
    So… I get to go back to being Open to the right guys, well they don’t come with a sign & a good many who’ve gone through divorce don’t really know what they want anymore! I don’t have a Black Heart…I’m being Rational, logical & emotional, honest & authentic.

  • Cassie

    Reply Reply June 1, 2016


  • Margie

    Reply Reply June 1, 2016

    Wonderful Blue Print of Dating.

  • Juliana

    Reply Reply June 1, 2016


  • Ioana Azamfirei

    Reply Reply June 7, 2016

    Amazing video! Thank you for this! It all makes so much sense.
    I think “Worth” and “Rational” are the two things I need to focus on first, and then the “Earn it”. I’m a very sociable-approachable person. I have an outgoing personality, a good sense of humor and I’ve always had and easy time making friends. However, the moment feelings ‘show up’ for a new guy I met and found attractive it’s as if I become ‘stupid’ all of a sudden… it’s like my brain switches off. All I see in my head are rainbows and butterflies and endless sunshine and … I have almost lost count of how many times I’ve fallen for the wrong guy. As a guy-friend put it ‘it’s like you’re a magnet for doushbags’.
    Long story short, YES PLEASE keep it coming! 🙂

  • Gloria Ross

    Reply Reply June 7, 2016

    Thanks for the video. I see now I need to start at rational.

  • Lynda Parker

    Reply Reply June 8, 2016

    Thank you Adam. I’ve just started a brand new relationship with a man who suggested we started dating (and this is after we’ve known each other as friends for almost a decade and have wanted to date) and we’re almost a month along. So far, it’s slow, but I’ve been advised by my brother that this is normal for it to be slow at first – because he wants to be with me for the long run.
    However, last week, he whispered ‘us’ to me after a date and since then, he’s been very quiet. I’ve been told when a man initiates that he wants to take it further, he either runs like a bull at a gate, or he takes his time. I think I’m dating a shy guy (I’ve been watching your videos and spotted my man immediately as the shy guy). But seeing we have both lived alone for years, we’re also very much set in our ways… and so we’ve both found we’re very stubborn too – which I find hilarious. 😀

    From your video, I’ve been overthinking things with my new man. So, I’ve done the right things – so far – and taken an interest in his life, family and friends. Now, it’s his turn to see how things go. I’ve already invited him to my class reunion as my date… let’s see how it goes.

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    Reply Reply June 10, 2016


  • Lydia

    Reply Reply June 10, 2016

    Adam have to admit your “tips” work for the young & beautiful not for the middle aged, ugly women.

    • Jean Bush

      Reply Reply July 24, 2016

      There are no ugly women, just those that don’t know what their beauty is.


  • ashlee

    Reply Reply June 19, 2016

    your video gave me somethings to really thing about, i had been Leary about watching it, im glad i did. cant wait to see the next video. thanks so much for the burning question what is my worth in a relationship?

  • Joanne

    Reply Reply June 20, 2016

    Thanks Adam. You’re confirming what I’ve been feeling and yet my emotions get in the way and I need to step back and see my worth and what I need. Will work on the latest guy earning my affection. I have a lot to offer in a relationship and just haven’t found a guy yet that treats me the way I deserve to be treated. They take my kindness for granted so I am learning a lot from your videos to help me progress.

  • lily

    Reply Reply June 26, 2016

    i just got out of my second relationship… i feel like im in the black heart begining stages.. there are lots of guys who are interested but i feel like im done opening myself up. i need to know how to tell if a guy is the right guy to open up to, i also need to learn or relearn how to be happy alone. i know no guy wants a miserable girl. PLEASE help me

  • Suzanne

    Reply Reply June 28, 2016

    Great video….but what if you are not in your 30s? Dating in late 40s and early 50s is a challenge because of so much life experience that comes with it…kids, aging parents, ex wives/husbands, careers, etc. Are you able to help us too?

    • Billie

      Reply Reply February 1, 2017

      Yes Adam thanks for video. But what about being older.? And what if you have been in a relationship for 11 years and he chooses the bottle over you.? And he has got his self in alot of trouble now. At least two years worth.He says he loves me BUT that is what I hear. Do I stay or do I go. I love him dearly and hate to start over again after 11 years. I listened to what you told your friend. Should I just come out and ask him. Where are we headed ?? Because I will wait. I just want forever. Please answer this one question for me. Thanks. Desperate Depressed and confused. HELP.!!!!

  • Dianne

    Reply Reply June 28, 2016

    Such passion, great share! Thanks

  • K

    Reply Reply June 28, 2016

    Thanks for the insight.I feel my kindness is taken for granted.I feel communication is so key but very challenging. Compromise has to be made. It’give and take. I don’the feel like I see the rewards of that. I ‘m accommodating, positive and give space. I guess hearing about the “worth ” stage will be beneficial.
    Definitely need to find the right person.I ‘m frustrated with”timing ” always being off!

  • Lisa

    Reply Reply July 2, 2016

    Great videos!

  • Mz.AAAAA

    Reply Reply July 3, 2016

    Love it! Awesomeness! Pure AWESOMENESS

  • Kim

    Reply Reply July 4, 2016

    Makes sense! Can’t wait to see more! Thanks!

  • Stacy

    Reply Reply July 6, 2016

    Right on target Adam!! Thank you for sharing and I look forward to your guidance.

  • Jodi Birmingham

    Reply Reply July 9, 2016

    THANK YOU ADAM! Some of what you say IS hard to hear but is necessary and very helpful! God bless you!!

  • Liz

    Reply Reply July 11, 2016

    Thank you for this video it really helps motivate me to keep being strong, trying to open my heart up to the right guys and get the bigger picture of what I can improve on!!

  • Stephanie

    Reply Reply July 11, 2016

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge. This video is very eye-opening for me. Looking forward to future videos.

  • marian

    Reply Reply July 16, 2016

    Thank you for the video. Its very eye-opening and am going to follow this… Thanks alot

  • Paulette

    Reply Reply July 27, 2016

    Very interested in finding out how this will
    Impact my current relationship.

  • Beatrix Coetsee

    Reply Reply August 4, 2016

    my worth, I am smart, educated, I can cook very well, I am not rude or unbecoming, I have my own house, I am fit and healthy, I am kind and patient, I look good and like a classic wear, I am social and very involved in the community, public speaking and run a bed & breakfast, I have met a lot of guys but have a fairly high standard so have not given my heart to anyone since my husband died 5 years ago. Not that I dont know how to have fun, I do and I get on with all my family members, even the difficult ones…truly, its because I understand honour, I love reading, movies and have a general positive and grateful disposition,
    But I am still single ??

  • Dorrie

    Reply Reply August 7, 2016

    Thank you so much for your insight Adam.. This is so helpful! I always try to live by the Power rules in dating. I’m very upfront in what I want in a relationship and supportive to my partner. Starting to see the light and on the right track…
    Thanks again

  • Nat

    Reply Reply August 19, 2016

    Thank you, insightful and thoughtful… Needed the reminder and focus.


  • Mel

    Reply Reply August 27, 2016

    Adam .. How do u get a man that told u that u r the best thing that has ever happened to him and that he fell in love with u and wants a life with u to get back to that after he has gotten sick and doesn’t remember any of the things he has said to u ? I have fell in love with him and I have been on a roller coaster from May 1st to July 19 th things started to get better between us but he doesn’t open up the way he use too nor show the same interest .. I feel like I’m at square one .. Is there a way I can talk to u one in one ?? I love him and I truly want to turn this around the way it was before May 1st please I need your help .. Thank u

  • Kristy

    Reply Reply August 30, 2016

    Looking forward to more.. Have felt so stuck since my fiancé cheated on me before our wedding. Too many causal relationships and feel like there are no good men left. Hopefully this will make me see things differently

  • Monica

    Reply Reply September 6, 2016

    Adam… You give me so much hope…I really had given up on relationships…but I have learnt so much from you .. Thank you..

  • Tania

    Reply Reply September 11, 2016

    Thank you for this video Adam. It has really opened up my perspective when dating men now. Looking forward to seeing how implementing your strategies will bring results into my personal life from now on.

  • Cindy

    Reply Reply September 12, 2016

    This is awesome! I see now that i need to evaluate MY self worth and be happy with myself first because no one else is going to do it for me.

  • Peta

    Reply Reply September 14, 2016

    Uplifting and positive approach.

  • Tiffany

    Reply Reply September 15, 2016

    Thanks! Good video.

  • Penny

    Reply Reply September 16, 2016

    I met a guy I love but unfortunately he is not willing to commit. however i don’t want to lose him.This video really gives me direction as to what i should do. It is really helpful…

  • Terri

    Reply Reply September 20, 2016

    Hi, Adam! Where were you 40 yrs ago?!?! I know, not born… I am thrilled to hear what you are saying, and am anxious to learn more. My issues are several, the first one being a high energy 60 yr old in a dating pool with men who either want the young ‘trophey’ or the men who are tired of being alone and so desperate that they are talking matching holiday sweaters on the first date. It’s exhausting, but I don’t have an ‘organic’ way to meet men aside from dating sites. Have you had much experience working with older singles? Will this stuff translate to this population? I’m lonely, but certainly not desperate! So afraid that I will have to ‘settle'( which I won’t) or be alone forever…

  • Diana

    Reply Reply October 1, 2016

    I needed to hear these things many years ago. Now as a senior I will have the relationship I choose.
    Been single 33 years not done a lot of dating. Still wanted that beautiful relationship.
    My thing to work on is make him earn it.

  • Anna

    Reply Reply October 12, 2016

    Authencity sums it up. You and your message are so authentic

  • Mau

    Reply Reply October 14, 2016

    Great video

  • Brigitte Bruneau

    Reply Reply October 19, 2016

    Awesome I needed this LOL. Learned a lot and now can’t wait for the other videos. Thank you

  • Blackheart

    Reply Reply October 19, 2016

    Already have blackheart. .now what

  • Dale Lefevre

    Reply Reply October 20, 2016

    I bring maturity, reliability, & integrity to my relationships.

  • J

    Reply Reply October 20, 2016

    Wow. Truly enlightening. I recently cut off someone, today, that was #1 on the Power list! I totally didn’t protect my heart. I knew in my heart from the beginning that he just wanted to just sleep with multiple women and didn’t want anything serious. My mistake was not asking his interests or what he was looking for sooner, and let my feelings grow for him. I put rationality to the side! I knew he had a troubled past with the law, and also that he wouldn’t even be right for me! But, I only saw him for 2 months and had my heart on my sleeve! I treated him with respect, showed him my fun side, showed him my wifey side and we had incredible sex. I hoped he would find love in me. I told him how I felt and it was a blessing to be able to see that I was unimportant to him. He wanted to continue seeing me and gave me so many mixed signals it was detrimental to my mental health trying to figure it all out! I have self worth and I know I don’t deserve that! I am actually happy because I do not have that negativity that I allowed to have. #protect your heart. I love it. Thank you.

  • Jeanette

    Reply Reply October 30, 2016

    The videos on this page from my email won’t open?

  • Jeanette

    Reply Reply October 30, 2016

    I have watched you though a lot and really like what you have to say. I have a lot to learn. Please let me know why I can’t open? If you can. In on a tablet but that shouldn’t matter.

  • Lu

    Reply Reply November 3, 2016

    Great overview – but cannot download. I keep getting a blank page 🙁

  • Holly

    Reply Reply November 12, 2016

    Thank you for your wonderful insight into what men want in commitment. I recently became heartbroken when the man I loved, who was my best friend and always said that I was his best friend, cheated on me. He always claimed to not want a relationship, therefore he doesn’t see he did anything wrong. But, for the past 2 years he maintained a monogamous relationship with me. However, when he showed up at his buddy’s house, where I was visiting, with another woman, he told his friend, “thanks for the heads up.” So, this tells me he does know that he’s done something wrong. I don’t know if there is ever a time when you should consider working things out with someone who has cheated. I do know that we had an amazing friendship and an amazing sex life with the best of both worlds. I can recognize what I would need to do differently, if we tried again, but my question is this: Do you believe it could ever work out in the long term, if he was to ask for another chance? I haven’t spoken to him since everything fell apart, because I didn’t want to seem as needy as I certainly felt at the time, but I truly love this man and want a life with him, but not at the expense of my own self-confidence. Any response would be greatly appreciated, as I agonize over this daily.

    Best wishes,
    Holly 😉

    • Michele

      Reply Reply December 14, 2016

      I feel for you. I’ve been in your shoes. Adam is spot on in his advice. Protect your heart. Your friend said he didn’t want to be in a relationship. I’ve learned that you have to believe what they say. I could have written your comments. I was in a ‘relationship’ where the guy sent so many mixed messages, how much he loved me, but didn’t want a relationship. In the mean time, he treated me like we were in one so he could have sex. Then cheated. I don’t fault him – he told me clearly he didn’t want a relationship. So he got what he wanted, but I fell hard, and I think he cheated as a way to really let me know. Taught me a lot about exactly what Adam says here. Protect your heart, make them earn your worth, be rational… or move on. You deserve better.

  • Patricia

    Reply Reply November 12, 2016

    Hello Adam. Just read all the comments from other ladies. I, too, am a senior; never married, retired. A man found me thru CL. It has been a month. I no it is dangerous to look at horoscope, but this has helped me immensely. Last night he would not even kiss me. We text & text. We are on my house. I did not get in the bed w/him
    He awoke & texted w/a Y. I opened my heart & told him I was hurt. Well, when he left, he gave the sweetest most wonderful kiss. He also held me as close as he could get. O, btw, he is mama’s boy & over 50. Has no $, works hard, & has no DL 4 60 days. Now, he realizes he needs me, but, I am going away for two weeks. Absence does make the heart grow fonder. I plan to send him a couple of special things:. Socks & $. I tell him that I want a relationship based on honesty, open-mindedness & willingness. There r also thiqngs he needs & wants. He grew his beard out 4 a week just 4 me. That right there is investment. Also, he is not the only man in my life & u better believe he nos it. Competition! I keep my heart protected. He doesn’t get everything until he earns it. He does lie about things & this is an issue. I just tell him that is not acceptable. He says, sry
    Thanks 4 great video.

  • Angie

    Reply Reply November 16, 2016

    I’m at a loss for words. You seem to have highlighted every issue I struggle with in relationships. And in the end always alone, I think I have not found the balance in “Power” it’s either too much or too little of one or the other. Thank you for sharing. Here’s to me finding the complete “Power” package.

  • Karina

    Reply Reply November 17, 2016

    Very interesting information You shared.. Looking forward to listen to more of tour valueable advices. Thank you

  • Wendy

    Reply Reply November 18, 2016

    Definitely struggle with the “r” in POWER. I’m excited to start my journey using this strategy. Thanks so much for sharing Adam.

  • sherry

    Reply Reply November 19, 2016

    I am 62 and starting over in the dating world. Your videos have been helping me gain new confidence. Thanks, Adam.

  • Grace

    Reply Reply November 26, 2016

    There is hope!!

  • Beth

    Reply Reply November 29, 2016

    Thank you, Thank you!! It’s time to take back the power, ladies.

  • Sarah

    Reply Reply December 2, 2016

    Thank you for these free videos. I will definitely use this blue print and pass it on to some friends to help them too. I know exactly what I bring to a relationship. As easy as “onto the next one” is, when you use too much emotion, it’s hard to say goodbye.

  • Ita

    Reply Reply December 6, 2016

    Great video… made me realise I’m putting too much into this guy that is not valuing my worth!!! Going to stop text him until he text me!! If I don’t hear from him on my birthday this weekend!!

  • Marsha

    Reply Reply December 8, 2016

    Thank you so much…I hate playing games…I wear my heart on sleeve most of time and have told him before what i want and I ask him what he wants so he replies “same as you” but, he travels for work, can’t (or won’t) find a job closer (he works from a company in CA but I live separately from him in MA) and have been dating for 11 years. He has explained he wants to be with me but the situation is that he has to travel. He does say that being with me is the best part of his time and loves me and wants to be with me but I only see him maybe four times a month (sometimes less and that’s not enough!). He says he IS committed to me, and isn’t seeing anyone else but I can’t prove it honestly. My friends think I should move on (several of them think he’s got a “girl in every port”) and some are like, just wait it out, he’s seeing you more and more though, give it more time…I honestly think 11 years of doing this is long enough, I want the ring already wtf????

    • Unicorn

      Reply Reply December 28, 2016

      Marsha, You need to ditch that man and move on, he sounds just like your friends are saying,… Sorry!

      11 Years!!!???!!!! Are you kidding me?
      Im in shock! Unless he’s working in the middle of the ocean on a drilling platform, there is NO excuse for pulling you thru that kind of life!

      I hope you´ll find the courage!

      Best wishes


  • Moriannae

    Reply Reply December 15, 2016

    Hi, I’m looking forward to other vids you’re preparing 🙂 this one surely brings the fundamental basics into the light, it does make sence 🙂 so now I just have to focus on those more 🙂

  • Roxanne Marie

    Reply Reply January 3, 2017

    I’m a 53 year old woman who is now divorced after 27 years of marriage with four sons. Boooyyy are things different from 30 years ago. Your “pep” talks have helped me with my self esteem, self worth and online dating in general. Thank you! Can’t wait for the next videos!!

  • Jacquie Spencer

    Reply Reply January 3, 2017

    Adam – I appreciate and very much enjoy your refreshing and passionate approach to having a great relationship. However, as much as I try, I’m left confused, because the guy I’ve been dating for FOUR years, does not follow your description of wanting a committed OR non-committed relationship. He started out by saying he was not interested in commitment of any type. He “wanted to go where he wanted, when he wanted, etc., etc. I continued to see him (and he me) anyway and trying to accept what he very honestly and upfront said to me. All this time he has stuck with his original desires – – until the last year. He now seems to be around much more, seems dedicated to making me totally happy, calls me a lot more and tells me most of what he is doing, where he is going, etc. I am questioning why this change (to myself) as he has not said anything regarding his change in behavior, feelings, etc. Therein lies my dilemma, I don’t know whether to point blank ask him, or let it go for a while and see what happens?? I sure don’t want to “rock the boat”. In the mean time I am following your POWER advise to the best of my ability. You are the best of all the GURUs on relationships I have read and listened to including Rori and Christian.

  • Stephanie Sprague

    Reply Reply January 7, 2017

    I appreciate the sound advice in your video, and look forward to more. 😊

  • Tanzi

    Reply Reply January 12, 2017

    Tysm Adam ! This is much needed

  • Jeanette

    Reply Reply January 13, 2017

    Dear Adam, Thank You for being so fourth coming with these videos, I totally screwed up from day 1 with ex that lasted 12 n half years with no commitment…real eye opener and now I know what I need to do. thank you for the free videos. please continue sending them.

  • patricia

    Reply Reply January 15, 2017

    Very interesting video — looking forward to the next ones
    My question is how or what does ‘make him earn your worth’ look like?
    I am late 40’s and most of the men have been married and aren’t looking for a relationship — want to enjoy their freedom and have fun only
    Thank you for you comments

  • Glenda

    Reply Reply January 17, 2017

    Thank you. With all the advice out there, this seems to put it all together better than all the bits and pieces. My biggest problem is the R! When you’ve been alone so long and you want love so bad, you find someone that seems to have everything you want, it’s HARD to not want instant gratification when all the hormones are flooding the brain of a girl who wears her heart on her sleeve! I need some exact tools to “over ride” the auto pilot switch the hormones seem to have!!!

  • Lori

    Reply Reply January 22, 2017

    I really enjoyed this video. Made me realize that I need to do a lot of work on myself. Thank you for this information.

  • pen

    Reply Reply January 22, 2017

    Thank you….seems like all men want is to get laid. Thanks for reminding me of my worth

  • Marci

    Reply Reply January 24, 2017

    So excited to on this journey of self discovery!!!

  • Hope

    Reply Reply February 1, 2017

    Finally a concrete blue print , makes it easier to wade thru all the bad experiences and see light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks Adam, at least I am set in the right direction.

  • Jennie

    Reply Reply February 1, 2017

    Thank you…this is exciting. So looking forward to the information.

  • Rachael

    Reply Reply February 10, 2017

    Looking forward to learning more for sure.

    Basically, I have a lot to offer and I know this. But I usually end up in one of two groups, either in the I love you dearly you are like my best friend, but I just want to be friends category, OR the hookup to maybe a friends with benefits situation. The very few guys who have stated they are into me at a deeper level something has prevented them from following through with it.

    1. Dude who is a good friend, and my future biz partner, is very much wanting to just be friends because he prefers women to only be 25 to 38 or no more than 10 years older than him, and I just turned 51 even though i look like I am in my mid 30s.

    2. Dude had his ex decide to try again and this being the only woman he had ever felt in love with and wanted to marry before she dumped him and broke his heart, he is trying again. We are still friends, and I do hope things work out for him with her since love like that is hard to find.

    3. Dude feels like we are too far apart and is scared of feeling the feelings he has for me. Of course I am moving 800 miles closer to him in June or July.

    Then I have the guys who just want to have fun and are not planning anything serious, Just dating and sex and maybe a fwb type thing.

    All the rest of the guys are just wanting me as a platonic friend, a buddy, or best friend. I have many long time friends with guys that have stood the test of time.

  • Rachael

    Reply Reply February 10, 2017

    Weird not sure why it is showing that old pic of me from 3 1/2 years ago I have lost about 80 lbs since that pic uggh

  • Emma Gem

    Reply Reply February 13, 2017

    Hi Adam,
    This is an epiphany, stumbling onto you on you tube. I have been questioning my WORTH, what am I bringing into my relationship with my very good, very generous and attentive, very challenging bf (said challenging because whatever he does for me, I tried to equal it)
    I tried showing him that I am worthy of being a good gf to him. But then, in my alone time I question myself, what is my worth and what am I bringing into my relationship that makes my bf feels positive being with me than being alone. I know that there are factors that affects us women why we acted with our emotions a lot of times. So with that being said, staying RATIONAL and balancing that with our female emotions plays a lot and helps us a lot making the right actions or reactions.
    This is heavy and deep for me because I am ready and open to love again fully and I know and I hope in my loving heart and my rational mind that this man loves me the same, coz I know he is my RIGHT guy.

  • Dixi

    Reply Reply February 21, 2017

    Amazing video… thanx for the tips that actually make real sense now… Keep the good work 🙂

  • Piera

    Reply Reply February 22, 2017

    Hi Adam

    Thank you, I watched your video and Im going to try to find my worth. After my divorce I really didnt know how to find anyone, when you have been with someone for 22 years starting over is difficult. I am waiting for your other videos, this is the first time Ive stepped out and tried dating after 6 years and its crazy out here i just cant believe what I see and hear. I was ready to step away from dating but now I want to hear the rest of your videos see if I can figure out what men are thinking and how to get them to listen

  • Piera

    Reply Reply February 22, 2017

    so I went on a date, this guy was pestering me for days and kept saying we would be great together. I finally went on a date with him we did have a great time he put out his hand to hold mine and asked for a kiss, which I did and we sat close to each other. He wasnt feeling well and I told him to go home and rest after a couple hours he finally said ok. He let me know later he got home ok and said he wished we could cuddle. I said I would make him soup if he was up to it but his kids were coming over and definitely next time. That night (next day now) he texted me thank you and cant wait until next date when he is feeling better. I texted him next morning to see how he was doing and nothing, all day nothing. Nothing now for over a week, I dont want to give up I did like him and felt a connection but I dont want to chase him. I did send him a message a couple days ago telling him silence speaks volumes and wished him luck, I know I should not have but I needed a response yes it was dumb but still nothing. a couple days later I said its a beautiful day enjoy the sunshine and have faith. Left it at that and again nothing. I am bothered by it and dont know what happened but it weighs on my mind. Anyone can give me any input it would help but just dont understand

  • Regina

    Reply Reply March 1, 2017

    very good insight. I look forward to the next one but I think I know which ones to avoid…

  • Caroline Young

    Reply Reply March 2, 2017

    Thank you so much for your video l was beginning to think that maybe it was me and that l was feeling more than the person l have been talking with and l realize l am,worth the time an effort if he is willing to work twords a relationship.
    He had a f health issue that.put some distance between us from where we were and l know he is worth the time l just need to express myself in a way that doesn’t push him away and yet not take me for granted.
    This is the first time in my life l have had to sit back and not allow my old records destroy my relationship. He has shown me that l matter , just hasn’t put the effort into acknowledging that my feelings are important too..
    I don’t want to shoot myself in the foot because l am impatient and yet l don’t want to put the time in if he doesn’t acknowledge me.

  • ginny

    Reply Reply March 13, 2017

    My worth is that I’m honest, loyal, faithful, trustworthy, hard working, generous, giving, extremely loving, forgiving and hopeful

  • Shelley

    Reply Reply March 18, 2017

    I found a great man on a dating site. It’s long distance at the moment but still early days . Your advice is amazing and I’m implementing this into the relationship as I want an amazing relationship this time. I’m looking forward to the other videos keep up the good work.
    Thanks again

  • Marie

    Reply Reply March 22, 2017

    Thanks for the video. It was great! I will Definitely be focusing on the “W” in the word power! My worth!

  • Karina

    Reply Reply March 25, 2017

    You are so wise!! l love this videi in particular. You really are giving the key. Thank you for being so giving to help woman to find happiness and to be a guide. Love the way you explaine it that really gets to the heart.
    You are amazing couch!!

  • cindy

    Reply Reply March 28, 2017

    Love your videos very down to earth & you present very well! I enjoyed the power segment I can relate to all of this as I am sure alot of people can.
    Tk you 🙂

  • Linda

    Reply Reply March 31, 2017

    Thank you Adam!

  • Susan

    Reply Reply March 31, 2017

    This is such a great video and you put it all out there and I love that! Can not wait for next video!

  • lin

    Reply Reply April 11, 2017

    Are you using techniques to manipulate someone into a relationship they ordinarily would not commit to? Love comes when two people LEARN to care about each other as they gradually bond through shared experiences and shared lives. Divorce is usually the consequence of forced commitment.

  • Alma

    Reply Reply April 23, 2017

    First I would like to say thank you. I really trust you it’s a lots BS videos & misleading information I appreciate your honesty & by you showing your face means a lot… Answer … My {W} I’m fun. Honest, authentic faithful , intelligent , interesting with life projects well define, happy living a peaceful quality life spiritual very social high morals I know my self pretty well self-love with a fully understanding of in responsable of my complete & unique self… I’m not like anyone else no matter how temping could be. I will. Not fall for it. Respectful beautiful, unique live& move in the circle of love.

  • Sandra

    Reply Reply July 2, 2017

    Thank you, nicely spoken. However, why would I purchase something from someone who isn’t married?

  • Susanne

    Reply Reply July 15, 2017

    Adam, I keep watching all of your videos on youtube. I learnt a lot, so thank you so much. You know what, the tone of your performance what gives me extra superpower. I cant imagine the energy in your voice. So thank you all your effort you put into it

  • Stephanie

    Reply Reply July 16, 2017

    Thank you for the information Adam. I recently just started talking to my highscool crush after 17 years and turns out he had a crush on me too. He lives 2 states away so I know it’s going to be different than what I’m used to but I know it’s worth it. I look forward to seeing the rest of your videos and always appreciate the knowledge you provide.

  • Joni

    Reply Reply August 14, 2017

    Hi Adam …. this is great advice not only for romantic relationships, but for any relationship you have in life — friendships as well as professional. If only I had thought about this sooner, I would have made different choices. But the past is past and I’m looking toward the future. You ask what I would work on first — Knowing my self worth. I bring a lot to the table. I’m financially stable, have a quirky sense of humor, very intelligent and pretty laid back about most topics. As I move through the relationships in my life, not just the romantic ones, I’ll be reminding myself what I bring to that relationship. Thank you!

  • Tatiana

    Reply Reply August 23, 2017

    I love the explanation of the POWER!!! especially, when it comes to a rational side of a relationship. I used to be guided by feelings and emotions. Now it’s time to add up “rationalism” into love life.
    Thank you, Adam!

  • Sandra Tobias

    Reply Reply September 16, 2017

    I needed this today. I stay disciplined with my emotions but struggle to understand why I do so. Thank you for identifying the need for a balance between P and O. This entire system is astounding to me, the value it has. Again, thank you.

    Also, I am at the start of my career. As I build it, I will reference your material more since I work in social settings and am human. I may consider other options you offer in the future.

  • lindsay jorgenson

    Reply Reply October 9, 2017

    Thank you

  • Billie

    Reply Reply October 26, 2017

    Thank you, love your videos.

  • Jen

    Reply Reply November 5, 2017

    A zing! Cant wait to learn more!

  • Tricia

    Reply Reply November 10, 2017

    Great video with great advice!

  • erin

    Reply Reply November 13, 2017

    great video, can’t wait to hear more!

  • Laura

    Reply Reply November 28, 2017

    I loved this video. It has so much information to use in the real world of dating. I cant wait for the next one. Thanks Adam

  • catie boyer

    Reply Reply December 1, 2017

    Hi, Adam I have a question about if I should or should not make this move with a guy for my sake?
    This guy I am having fun with who I have feelings for that are kind of taking over now…
    He says he is not ready for a relationship that I am attractive yes but…
    He also has not a dangerous but still there sex addiction…
    He is a very nice guy still, good friend of mine but I wish that we could take things to the new level as a couple, but like I said he doesn’t want a relationship, that he is tired of getting close to people and hurting them…
    My problem is I see past his issue and problem of being a sex addict, yes he needs to go for counseling and such, yet he goes to church and there is a program where they talk about addictions…
    So, I don’t know the next step/right step?
    Should I leave the situation and find someone else and protect my heart from him because I don’t want no black heart syndrome…?

  • Sharon

    Reply Reply December 4, 2017

    I am only listening I really have given up but you make a lot of sense

  • SuzieMo

    Reply Reply December 9, 2017

    Thank you Adam-
    While I knew it all along, you helped me get on to the “next “. My self worth and what I bring to relationship is so much more when I am being offered in my current relationship! Thank you for the reminder!

  • SuzieMo

    Reply Reply December 9, 2017

    I got to say, I really like the randomly selected emoji’s! That’s a nice touch thank you for all that you do. I attended your webinar this week, and I would’ve signed up for your coaching except that I’m not sure that I’m quite ready or in the right place at the right time to sign up for the webinar.

  • Yolandi Benade

    Reply Reply December 10, 2017

    Very insightful. Wish I knew it before😉

  • Blessed

    Reply Reply December 17, 2017

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge of relationships. I look for to listening to more.

  • Tara

    Reply Reply December 19, 2017

    This video is great. I can’t wait to get the program.

  • Jacaranda

    Reply Reply December 30, 2017

    Well said Adam. My bar had lowered to a ridiculous level probably equal to my self esteem. Your Vegas example made it very clear why I don’t get respect. Thx for giving me a clue how to get it.

    I am a very good catch; upbeat, creative,affectionate, love touching (too much), outgoing, healthy ( I’m pretty old, so not a given), playful and perceptive. I can cook real well, well traveled etc. I look darn good too.

    Let’s see if working your POWER method gets me back in love for 2018.

  • Helen

    Reply Reply January 16, 2018

    Hi, Adam–interested in learning more about balancing the rational and emotional!

  • Gloria Lee

    Reply Reply January 17, 2018

    I know i am worth it ..i dont know if he knows that

  • Robin Wilcox

    Reply Reply February 1, 2018

    Thank you
    For all that you are, for helping a nice lady like me,to remain a nice lady. 😇

  • Amber

    Reply Reply February 11, 2018

    Thank you for sharing; this definitely looks interesting!

  • Ann

    Reply Reply March 12, 2018

    Thank you for this wonderful video Adam! Cant wait for the next one to be uploaded! Cheerio!

  • Linda

    Reply Reply March 18, 2018

    I’m 64 and after10 months he told me that he loves me. He’s 63. We’ve never even kissed. Now that he’s said it, he’s backing up. I stay feminine but I think he scared himself. What do I do?

  • Karen

    Reply Reply March 20, 2018

    57 and dating again. It’s hard because I automatically think I’m going to be hurt again.

  • Nory

    Reply Reply April 2, 2018

    Wonderful advice…..Thank you

  • Liliana

    Reply Reply April 4, 2018

    Interesting information, I will start to follow it and see where my relationship goes with my significant other. Can’t wait to see the rest if your videos.

  • Lisa

    Reply Reply April 5, 2018

    Sound advice. I look forward to future content to put into action.

  • Lila Nushwat

    Reply Reply April 8, 2018

    Adam this was your best advice to date. Power this is so true and it makes
    sense. I met a great guy on Match, we emailed each other but he didn’t want to meet in person, he now wants to text me. I now know why, I didn’t make him earn my worth.
    Thank you, great advice.

  • Ma. Angelica Vega

    Reply Reply April 8, 2018

    Wow… This is really an eye-opener especially I’ve been to casual relationships and the last relationship that i had is much worst than I thought it would be. This is just on of the things that can help me improve my aspects of being in a romantic relationship.

  • Chastity

    Reply Reply April 11, 2018

    Can’t wait for the next video

  • Dawn

    Reply Reply April 18, 2018

    Love this, Thank You so much xx

  • Diana

    Reply Reply April 24, 2018

    Thank you very much for this video!
    What about a woman did all that but couldn’t make him commit .

  • Sophie

    Reply Reply April 26, 2018

    loved your energy! I need to learn how to make guys EARN me

  • Dana

    Reply Reply April 28, 2018

    Good video

  • Erin

    Reply Reply May 2, 2018

    Thanks so much for the POWERful advice, Adam. Starting to date again at 50, in a completely different world, your advice has been priceless. Took over half my life to realize we have the power. Looking forward to the next video and more enlightenment in the dating world.
    All the Best,

  • Julia

    Reply Reply May 3, 2018

    I got so close to having the relationship I wanted with an amazing man. Now I am in a very weird “friend zone” I don’t understand how we got here.

  • Julia

    Reply Reply May 3, 2018

    I don’t understand how I got where I am now. From a strong relationship to sitting in a weird friend zone. I’m heartbroken.

  • Dawn Richardson

    Reply Reply May 4, 2018

    Great video Adam! And thank you for helping us women out! Although these are all things that I knew and felt it’s still nice to hear from an actual man as to this is what men are really looking for, so intern that gives me hope that I am on the right path and soon will find the love of my life so thank you again Adam!

  • Candace

    Reply Reply May 10, 2018


    I needed this video….it is great.
    I have been out of the dating world for a long time.
    My husband past away some time ago leaving me alone. Think of your Mom after 40 years of marriage. The wants and needs are the same for every age group. I had a wonderful husband….but life must go on. I hope not to finish off my life alone.
    Unfortunately, I seem to attract married men…unhappy married men. They all want to leave their unhappy life. Yes, you taught how to protect your heart. Is that the first question you ask a man….and will they be truthful. How do you come straight to the point asking the question are you married? I know my worth and plan to stay positive with that worth.
    You are great!

  • Ann

    Reply Reply May 12, 2018

    Thank you so much Adam for this video. It serves as a reminder for us women to protect our heart and know our worth. The way you explain things are so practical and easy to understand and you don’t know that through these videos you have help thousands of women to be happy and successful not only in their relationship but as a person. More power.

  • Jean

    Reply Reply May 18, 2018

    on the personal side: looking to take the power strategy from friend zone to committed
    for business: I know my worth but I give too much, need to make them earn it versus giving it away for free. Have a line and walk away / protect myself from the wrong person

  • Tasha

    Reply Reply May 25, 2018

    Great video

  • Lynn

    Reply Reply May 28, 2018

    Great video. Just trying to figure out how to do all that in a long distance relationship…

  • Rachel

    Reply Reply June 21, 2018

    Loved the content and the high energy delivery! Looking forward to implementing in my life.

  • Rosalie

    Reply Reply June 21, 2018

    Hi Adam…im glad to watch your video..

  • Latoya Jasmin

    Reply Reply July 6, 2018

    My ex boyfriend cheated on me in life every night and day. Thank you for helping me in life every night and day.

  • Dana Herrick

    Reply Reply July 10, 2018

    Excellent information

  • Karyll

    Reply Reply August 3, 2018

    Awesome Adam – love the way you present – earthy, practical but with the emotional passion that shows you understand. Keep this going.

  • Kathleen

    Reply Reply August 3, 2018

    Thank you for the video! I have been utilizing the POWER blueprint and am currently in a wonderful relationship with a guy who is showing his interest and commitment so far! 🙂

  • Tammy Shepherd

    Reply Reply August 4, 2018

    I am 50 years old and tired of playing games. I am truly trying to figure out how to end a six year itch, I have been in 4 long term relationships which all have ended after six years of being in the relationship. Only, 1 has actually turned into marriage. So, I am hoping with your help and listening to these videos. I can find a true committed relationship.

  • pen

    Reply Reply August 4, 2018

    What breaks my heart is he wanted the same thing. I left him alone then he would start contacting me again, so I gave in then he backed away again, saying he doesn’t want a relationship…kinda like cat and mouse. Now Im going through the withdrawls again, trying to get strong again. Ugh, it’s so hard.

    Thank you Adam for your advice, I just don’t know what to do.

  • Starlight

    Reply Reply August 6, 2018

    Thank you so much very much Adam again for putting this together for us this will help us out greatly! Especially me now that I know what to do to get the guy that I am currently seeing!

  • Patti

    Reply Reply August 6, 2018

    Thanks, Adam! Loved this approach; the outdoor scene in front of your parents’ wedding site is very effective, even moving. I agree that Worth is the most important element in your plan. Thank you!

  • Marianela

    Reply Reply August 6, 2018

    Oh 😮 I just want to thanks you, I know I make mistakes that hurts always, I give all of me for nothing

  • Jennifer

    Reply Reply August 8, 2018

    I bring love, loyalty, laughter, , partnership to the relationship. Looking forward to your program.

  • Lisa

    Reply Reply August 11, 2018

    I really wish you would stop with talking about yourself for the first 15 minutes of every video. Its repetitive and I simply tune out. By the time you get in to actually giving valuable advice I’m so bored from hearing your spiel for the umpteenth time I’m ready to unsubscribe.

    I hope you seriously consider this. We all know what publications you’ve contributed to and the same resume of shows you’ve been a guest on. Enough already *geez*

  • Karen

    Reply Reply August 22, 2018

    Thank you!!! Can’t wait for the rest of the videos!! My current situation now and at our age it’s maddening.

  • Dawn

    Reply Reply September 4, 2018

    Very insightful, thank you Adam

  • Lindsey

    Reply Reply September 5, 2018

    Thanks for sharing this powerful empowering tool for women. I think I need to learn more about what works with guys as I’m getting out of a long term relationship. Not sure about dating again as it’s very scary out there. This helps me not feel so anxious about it.

  • Mj

    Reply Reply September 8, 2018

    Thanks adam…such good stuff@!

    • Isola

      Reply Reply May 14, 2019

      I was open by asking home why he was disappearing every evening After 7 pm circa bit I received no explanation

  • Maureen

    Reply Reply September 25, 2018

    Thank you Adam, I am
    Excited to learn more from you

  • Marge Marsino

    Reply Reply September 30, 2018

    Started to see a Chiropractor, first day are eyes closely meet. Is it unethical to date your doctor. He is showing a interest, but he is 51, and I am65. Would this be wise to pursue this.


  • Dawn

    Reply Reply October 1, 2018

    Thank you for the great advice!! I’m recently divorced and I have no idea what i’m doing!! Hoping this program will help.

  • C

    Reply Reply October 1, 2018

    Been in so many broken relationships that I don’t feel like I’m worth anything. Hope this helps.

  • Lina V. Emerick

    Reply Reply October 8, 2018

    Hello very interesting. I was married two times and now divorce from both. I’m going out with this guy he is 58 years old and I am 46 we are dating for four months he likes me and I like him a lot he is always helping is very attentive but he told me this… that I have the green light the we have to go slow and go with the flow that means he is interesting or not ?

  • Sesilia

    Reply Reply October 19, 2018

    You awesome Adam.
    I’ve been dating different guys here and there, but all the relationships were boring. Few weeks back i fall in love with a guy from my varsity. Im 25 and he is 27. He told me several times that he likes me alot and in few days back he said he is in love me. He talks alot and I never get a chance to open my heart and say what i want apart from saying “im in love with him too”. I’m worried, he isn’t proposing to me yet, that he want me to be part of his life journey. What he is waiting for, and it’s going to be a month now. I never fall inlove before until I meet him. He is romantic, and cute, i mean he just perfect, he got all I want in relationship. What do I do with him? Should i keep waiting for his proposal which I don’t know when it gonna come? Do I tell him want i want in life concerning relationship?

  • Stacey

    Reply Reply October 31, 2018

    Great advice. I am in a new relationship. I met the guy at a bad time for me had recently broken up from a four year relationship. The four year relationship was the perfect rational relationship but emotionally dead. So anyhow here is this new guy and he is so open emotionally and I don’t follow my own rules. (Giving time for healing after a break up and pacing-earning). It all happens so fast and I go with the emotion and lots of it ends up a mess but we are still together but there are pieces missing and we seem to be in a weird area committed but progressing so slow. Part of it I feel is because I have in and led with my heart early due to my vulnerable state and the other part I don’t feel he felt he had to earn me. Is there a way to put those needed things back in when you both are committed but you can see he has doubts (which I do believe is due to those two key areas.

  • DT

    Reply Reply November 1, 2018

    very informative and useful. I’m keeping those 5 secrets save on my phone

  • DT

    Reply Reply November 1, 2018

    I’m keeping those 5 secrets save on my phone

  • Marie

    Reply Reply November 2, 2018

    Great video. Very supportive and helpful

  • Karen

    Reply Reply November 2, 2018

    Really great and different approach to dating. Particularly enjoyed your examples. Made sense.
    Thank You

  • Tricia

    Reply Reply November 8, 2018

    I love u so much Adams this’ s really inspiring looking forward to having more of ur videos tnx dearie……

  • cici

    Reply Reply November 19, 2018

    thank you Adam for this wonderful video. I had actually developed the black heart syndrome. But thanks to you i am willing to heal first and give love a shot.

  • Yokome Otu

    Reply Reply November 22, 2018

    That was a wonderful and impacting video Sir Adam. Thanks for the lecture. I’m gonna do my best to know my worth and also to build my self esteem. I’m currently in a relationship with a guy that is giving me so many conditions because of heartbreak he went through in the past. But this Video has given me all I need to do so I don’t end up hurting my heart just to please him.
    Thanks alot Sir Adam.

  • Amy

    Reply Reply November 26, 2018

    Wow Adam I’ve been texting with a guy now for almost 7 months, but he can never get to visit there’s always a problem, but he text every night except over weekends but in the week every day during the day and at night. this is getting me now, we also only spoke once on the phone, i think it’s time to move on right,, he has also only girls on h is fb but seems like a player to me. not really sure what to do here.

  • Stace

    Reply Reply December 2, 2018

    Great advice! Makes sense. Looking forward to learning how to employ the blueprint into my own situation. Thanks

  • Debbie

    Reply Reply December 6, 2018

    This seems to be geared for the younger dating scene. Imagine being divorced at 60 and starting over. Not easy as most have established lifestyles and prior family and household commitments that inhibit intimate commitment. 2 successful articulate adults who are still working towards retirement is very difficult at best. Most of the ideals given here have already been established. Marriage is not necessarily the best option and being exclusive is natural and acceptable. Time is limited with careers and sharing a life may not work with each partner already own a home and chiseled out lifestyle. I’m looking for support for such a difficult pathway. Thanks

  • Michelle

    Reply Reply December 8, 2018

    How do you get on the early release sign up?

  • Lindsey Beddingfield

    Reply Reply December 14, 2018

    I love this video thank you so much for introducing this to me looking forward to the rest

  • Wendy

    Reply Reply December 23, 2018


  • Tre

    Reply Reply January 2, 2019

    What if you meet a guy and he tells u that he has a girl friend but u talk every day and u begin to like him. And then one thing leads to another and u can’t take it back what do u do

  • Jan

    Reply Reply January 5, 2019


  • Elvira

    Reply Reply January 13, 2019

    This is very informative thanks

  • Jacqueline

    Reply Reply January 19, 2019

    I been in out relationship for 14 yrs trying to convince myself he will commit an has not happen, he’s feel that he will not be happy if he commit to me he loves the way its is with no romantic bone in him I have tolerated much to long an always putting effort to love him an he enjoying the ride on my behalf,but I had enough walk out of this relationship to find someone to value me an show me am worth it all.
    Your videos are awesome will follow the power system.

  • Carol

    Reply Reply January 22, 2019

    If there is ANYONE on this planet that needs this program it’s ME!! Thank you 🙂

  • Pam

    Reply Reply January 25, 2019

    Great video

  • Monica

    Reply Reply January 27, 2019

    Thank you! I need this, love the video & can’t wait to see the others!

  • Dottie

    Reply Reply January 27, 2019

    Hi Adam
    I really love your videos. I am divorcing my husband after 30 years of marriage due to his infidelity. I just found out about this 1 1/2 years ago because I put a recorder in his car and also found out that it has been going on for years and he has children the same age as our older children. I married him at 17 and he was 24.
    So I met a man on a date site through our church. I was really hesitant to trust any man but I realize that not every man is the same. It scares me because I have feelings for this man that I never had for my ex. The new guy says that he wants to be with me forever. We see each other when we can and talk almost daily. He lives a little over an hour away. He is a truck driver and his day starts at 2:30 am. I scared!!!
    Can you please give me some advice!!!
    Thank you so much
    If you would like to call here is my number
    I’m ready to start my life but I’m really nervous

  • Chantal

    Reply Reply February 19, 2019

    I loved the video and especially how POWER is broken down – I gotta start PROTECTING my heart and make the guy EARN it – I definitely know my worth though.


  • Rehema

    Reply Reply February 19, 2019

    Awesome I can’t stop following your programs. Thanks for helping us women

  • Mariela

    Reply Reply February 21, 2019

    Thank you Adam, this video is awsome. These tips are really helpful. I have been with my ex for 20 years, but it never worked out, not because he didn’t want to commint, but he has addiction problems and i always thought that he was going to change, but it never happened. So meeting this new guy is really something new for me. I will keep watching these videos. Thank you very much Adam.

  • Joann

    Reply Reply February 23, 2019

    Thank you so much. I need to move on and stop being just a convenience for him…..am in my 50’s and not a teenager playing games.

  • Abby

    Reply Reply February 26, 2019

    Thanks Adam. The video came at the right time.
    Really helped.

  • Polly

    Reply Reply March 6, 2019

    Adam, the things you say are so refreshing and actually make so much more sense than manipulating a guy. Honestly, how hard is it to respect a guy when you’re having to play him all the time? It’s not real. I am taking myself off of all the other mailing lists but yours. Wow! I just realized that what YOU bring to the table has brought me to the decision to commit to only your mailing list! And that’s EXACTLY what is going to work for me, just like you said. Value and Worth!!

  • Tricia

    Reply Reply March 11, 2019

    Wow! Thanks a lot. This video has really helped.. I really needed this thank you

  • Marwa

    Reply Reply March 12, 2019

    Thanks Adam..really interesting and inspiring.

  • Ann

    Reply Reply March 15, 2019

    🤔, I gave up.. what’s nxt is unpredictable

  • Ann

    Reply Reply March 15, 2019

    The disappearing is so immature, but I gave up. No contact for 2 months.. is that normal?

  • Lizelle

    Reply Reply March 17, 2019

    Really interested to see the other videos

  • Shettri

    Reply Reply March 21, 2019

    Adam Thankyou very much for making this video

  • Tammy

    Reply Reply March 26, 2019

    Hi Adam,

    Any relationship is difficult. It comes down to red flags and when to fish or cut bait.

    I have a guy who won my heart, but then decided to check out his background when his behavior emotionally became sketchy. It was an LDR. I was not happy when I discovered he was attempting to pull the wool over my eyes. Sometimes when it sounds too good to be believed it is too good to believe.

    He told me he worked for FBI, US Marshall’s office, was the number 1 hand writing analyst and he helped write the protocol for the FBI on being able to tell whose lying.

    Not only did I discover he had a criminal background, DUI, felony, but also never worked for any of those places.

    I even offered him opportunity to open up to see if he would tell me anything. He never did.

    Ladies, learn to recognize red flags. Adam…. teach ladies this. Its okay to walk away and better if its under your decision. Empower yourself to leave.

    All he was looking for was taking me to bed which he never accomplished.

    The question is do you ghost the guy or come out with all the facts to bust him then block him…?

    Remember tis better to be in the catbird seat of power analogy!

    Meanwhile remember men are like busses, one comes by every five minutes no matter what your size!

    Stay sexy and confident my friends! Enjoy the view from that catbird seat!

  • Cheyenne Beall

    Reply Reply April 3, 2019

    Dear Adam,
    So I have this guy that I fell in love with and broke it off a few times because I was scared about what my ex did to me. I was scared to open up and I pushed him away, I think I hurt him too badly. He says he’s not ready to be in a relationship for awhile. Now he txts me once a month to invite me over but then I go over and leave and he doesn’t txt me back for weeks at end. I love him but how do I get him back??

  • Cressy

    Reply Reply April 7, 2019

    Hi Adam,
    Thank you for this. I am a Happiness Coach and I am coach people on retaining their power in their lives but I never apply it to myself in dating! You are a great guy and very helpful. Thank you again. All the best, Cressy

  • Ingrid Frisinger

    Reply Reply April 11, 2019

    Adam. I going after worth! After a 31 year marriage where I was beaten and broken daily and cheated on. My self worth is not there/here.
    Thank you for these videos and HELP!

  • unknown

    Reply Reply April 21, 2019

    Adam, thank you for this video
    i have a guy which we became sexual intimate,our relationship is not define, i actually decided to play alone, during the process have fallen for him. i want to enable to make him desperate want me, i think we only meet and have sex. he tends to claim me. i want him to yearn for me. how can i go about it adam. i need your help

  • Louicinda

    Reply Reply May 2, 2019

    Thanks soo much for this powerful video 💚💛❤️
    Actually I’m dating online and I want you to give me some clue how to know if he is sincere with me.. Sometimes it’s hard for me cause I soo in love with him.. And it’s been since one month only

    • Louicinda

      Reply Reply May 2, 2019

      And I want to tell you that he lives abroad

      • Tammy boulter

        Reply Reply May 16, 2020

        I have found a man and he is a very nice lad and his name is ben filp and he is very nice on his photo and he is a happy man I will send him a text message from me

  • Confidence

    Reply Reply May 2, 2019

    Am just 20 this year getting your knowledge hope of blissful love life I get
    Thanks sir for being a blessing to me as I needed

  • Sica Lillian

    Reply Reply May 7, 2019

    I’m a Massage Therapist, Fitness Instructor/Pole Dancer, Encourager/Nurturer, Breadwinner, Lover, Protector

  • Helen Dearman

    Reply Reply May 17, 2019

    Very interesting information. However, as good your advise might be referring to someone as a “fucking person” diminishes your credibility as a professional. Clean up your mouth so you can be taken more seriously and not appear as just some other guy out there.

  • Annette

    Reply Reply May 21, 2019

    Subtitles would be even nicer if included in the video.

  • Crystal

    Reply Reply May 28, 2019

    good video and content,
    i tend to push men away, before they hurt me.

  • Faith

    Reply Reply June 5, 2019

    This clip was very explanatory and educative also. I have also has my self worth as a for front in a relationship. So guy I just entered a relationship with but haven’t gone intimate with had the gut to tell me that am so hard to get, unlike most womaen he’s met before now .I really do not know what he meant by it Adams. It came in quite annoying to me coz for me he probably didn’t know what he was getting into or coming for.

    • Faith

      Reply Reply June 5, 2019

      This clip was very explanatory and educative also. I have also had my self worth as a for front in my relationship. Some guy I just entered a relationship with but haven’t gone intimate with had the gut to tell me that am so hard to get, unlike most women he’s met before now .I really do not know what he meant by it Adams. It came in quite annoying to me coz for me he probably didn’t know what he was getting into or coming for. His talks are mainly certered on SEX. Thatz a red flag already for me. Thanks so much Adams for been there, I appreciate u so much…..Stay bless

  • Zubeydah

    Reply Reply June 12, 2019

    Hi Adam, i like your advice good to abulid agood ralationship,

  • Aaishah

    Reply Reply July 2, 2019

    Thanks Adam this is good advice and don’t listen to people criticise coz they just jealous of the person u are love your videos

  • Lynn

    Reply Reply July 16, 2019

    Hi Adam. I dated a guy for seven dates over two months and was intimate on 7th date. Now he’s freaking out trying to decide if he should end or keep going. He loves everything about me except that he thinks cuz I don’t know all the TV shows, movies, music he likes that we aren’t compatible. Also cuz I won’t force my kid to go to college if he doesn’t want to go but he will. He also feels I can’t inspire him at work cuz I don’t understand the corporate arena because I am a creative. He also said, I don’t know if you’re the one or if the one is still out there. He said I have his heart but another gal has his mind right now. He’s trying to look forward and see what the outcome would be with us. He wants to get to know me more. He said we could be friends and don’t be affectionate or go back to casual dating with sex and we’d both date others. Problem is we met only couple months after both our divorces are final and he’s projecting prior relationships that didn’t work out cuz of lack of common interests onto me. We both like each other but I am wondering if I need to let him go! Please help me!

    • Amy Dollar Simone

      Reply Reply July 16, 2019

      I just wanted to say that I don’t think it’s you. If he can’t see you for who you are and what you bring to the relationship..differences included, respect yourself enough to think that maybe HE’S
      not for you. Value yourself and believe me that having been cheated on…I won’t let anyone disrespect me again. There’s power and self love/respect in that. Good luck and blessings.

  • Amy Dollar Simone

    Reply Reply July 16, 2019

    I found out last year that my husband of 32 years had been having affairs for 10 years..the last one had lasted 5 years. I had had a rare disease and he decided that he deserved better. I was heartbroken and angry. Now I’m just started dating…so because it’s been so long I’ve been learning as much as possible about dating. Also learning about how to spot a liar and narcissist.
    I don’t think all men are bad, I just want to find the right one. I’m dating someone now who we both really enjoy the time together.

  • Christine Sweeney

    Reply Reply July 24, 2019

    The advice has helped me filter my responses to men . I’ve always been a willing,warm optimistic Lamb to the freedom fighters and other types of ………..”.should be Next guys” .
    I didnt see or recognise them hey i do now !
    I see now i am not faulty. Now i acknowledge my self worth shut down the leary conversations and reject the booty calls . Its been hard but ive met a “pilgrim” who i will take the time to grow a relationship with . The fires there but im not going to let the Dopamine and lust de-rail a very good kind man. Bye bye all these freedom fighter
    Many thanks . C from Scotlland

  • Tonya

    Reply Reply August 10, 2019

    Hello adam

    Your an incredible coach and a marvelous public speaker i seriously hope to.one dsy get into a better situation to sign up for your forums club and much more thank you


    • Tonya

      Reply Reply August 10, 2019

      You definatly are educating us all so far in a powerful way videowise i still am carrying a lot of animosity towards a recent sepetation and im still healing jn all ways its a slow process but getting there trying to improve my life with setting lots of gosls

  • Jean M Carmichael

    Reply Reply August 27, 2019

    Becoming single very late in life is frightening. Solo is not and has never been “me.” Have found a wonderful man & become deeply invested in him. I am so afraid of being hurt. Been there, done that. Still, I’m more afraid of being alone late in life. Protecting my heart is a challenge. Being worth his commitment is also a challenge. There’s distance in spite of his talking about being committed to me. I don’t understand.

  • T

    Reply Reply August 28, 2019

    Great video.

  • Sandra Maatman

    Reply Reply September 1, 2019

    I never get your the 3 pages on the site
    But i need know when you tell your boyfriend or a friend the truth abot everything
    All he wants sex and don’t appreciate me or tell me he love im a woman he doesn’t call me or it take me for granted
    All he talk about other women what can I do
    And i never get the 3 pages of what u sent to me

  • Melissa

    Reply Reply September 11, 2019

    Interesting information. Wow

  • Evon

    Reply Reply October 3, 2019

    I can see my relationship moving in the right direction, since I started to listen to Adam. Wow he’s all over me, not to the extent I want but definitely not like before. He chats me up everyday, his opening up about himself and his life, more appreciative of my feelings and comments…it’s really interesting and am patiently taking things from casual to committed. Am Kenyan his Kenyan too, I have loved him since I met him a year ago, only been to his bed once but we’ve had several dates and hang out without sex or the like mostly as friends and I feel nice being respected and treated like a queen ☺️. I found Adam a month ago and ever since the ghosting has stopped and things are getting better and better. Thanks 😊 Adam your the best.

  • Erica

    Reply Reply October 15, 2019

    I just saw your video for the first time and it made me think for the last 2 years on and off I talk to this guy I try to be there every time he needed me in the last year but he never had time for me I ask him to fix my car and he did went to see it but it took him 3 weeks and he still didn’t do it he did gave me car for the moment but I don’t know if he did it purpose off taking that long to have on the radar or what but I think is time to let go and wait for the right one thank you

  • princess cecilia

    Reply Reply October 25, 2019

    oh wow crazy

  • Princess Serenity

    Reply Reply December 16, 2019

    Thank you Adam! I will begin by knowing my worth, in which is that I am worthy to be with the man I want to be with no matter what area I am struggling in my life- I am worthy. I also accept that I know that the values that I have are high values and not just any man can have my heart.

  • Fatima

    Reply Reply February 8, 2020

    Hi, am fatima aka ihsan. I’m a nice,confident and kind girl.

  • Robin Taylor

    Reply Reply February 25, 2020

    I am 62 and very very active and living the life I always wanted. I was married three times and the last one was a scam!! I paid for everything and he tried to take everything so I am extremely cautious. I am secure with myself and I have so many goals and wonder if a man can fit into my life. This is a dilemma for me as I don’t want to disrupt where I’m going. Would love to have someone but have always tried to please probably to a fault and now I would like someone to want to contribute more and please me?????

  • Lori Ann

    Reply Reply March 6, 2020

    Thank you! Great content and sound advice. ❤️

  • DW

    Reply Reply March 9, 2020

    Really liked the video. Good information. I especially like the analogy used on self worth and money earned by gambling versus hard work. That really stood out and help put things in perspective for me. Thanks for sharing.

  • Jane Swanson

    Reply Reply March 29, 2020

    Its not playing??

  • karen

    Reply Reply March 31, 2020

    awesome!!! thank u

  • Sybil Mercer

    Reply Reply April 5, 2020

    Thank you Adam for such a great video. I’m taking my POWER back starting today!

  • Suzanne Bennett

    Reply Reply April 12, 2020

    Best Video you have done, YET, Adam! Cannot wait to learn more in casual
    To committed!
    Thank You !

  • DOROTHY O Connor

    Reply Reply April 13, 2020

    Will try your POWER system for dating it’s great advice you really understand women and dating
    Going forward will protect my heart and make someone earn my worth
    I believe all your advice in your videos it really works
    Dorothy Ireland

  • Zana

    Reply Reply April 19, 2020

    Wow! Can’t wait to see what’s next!

  • Darlene

    Reply Reply April 25, 2020

    Great information I’ll keto the power point with me during this journey of getting back out dating after being married for15 year! Thank u

  • CeeCee

    Reply Reply May 4, 2020

    Thanks for the video.

  • Oku Abigail

    Reply Reply May 8, 2020

    So,so, Educative and real! Thanks a lot .

  • Sherry Simms

    Reply Reply May 18, 2020

    Thank you!

  • Tanya

    Reply Reply May 20, 2020

    What if I think he’s emotionally unavailable. He says he likes what we have, don’t want anything to change but having a hard time on how we met. (His Now ex and my Now ex cheated with each other…on us) that’s how we met. He says he needs space, he says he’s gonna be alone the rest of his life. But I thought we connected and had something… help!!

  • Tanya

    Reply Reply May 20, 2020

    What if I think he’s emotionally unavailable. He says he likes what we have, don’t want anything to change but having a hard time on how we met. (His Now ex and my Now ex cheated with each other…on us) that’s how we met. He says he needs space, he says he’s gonna be alone the rest of his life. But I thought we connected and had something… help!! BTW We have been exclusively “hanging out” for 9 months now

  • Sherry Jones

    Reply Reply May 27, 2020

    I am going to use the p protect I have been hurt several times and I need to learn how to protect it before I get hurt again

  • Noelle

    Reply Reply June 8, 2020

    What do I bring to a relationship? Know my worth…Hmmm…
    Laughter and wit
    Sex and sensuality
    No ex hubby, no ex bf’s around, my parents have already passed so no family drama, and no “baby” daddy drama (my baby is 19 now)
    Intelligent, nerdy, deep, logical, political, scientific conversation
    Goofy ass dorky conversation
    Someone to enjoy outdoor/water activities, live music, socializing
    Partner/Partner “in crime”
    Killer billiards partner
    Emotionally stable w/ occasional short-lived anxious/avoidant attachment meltdowns
    My own income, house, car, independence
    Permanent birth control
    Strong opposition to boredom/ruts/routines i.e. will always strive to keep things fresh/new/exciting/surprising
    Blunt honesty (can be problematic!) or conversely, shoving my feelings deep down until I briefly explode/vent it all out at once (also problematic!)
    Support, loyalty, trust, empathy, sympathy, someone who will literally fight for and to protect my guy
    Cooking, planning, homemaking
    Random Astronomy or Psychology tidbits
    Oh, and FEAR OF ABANDONMENT. Can’t forget that back monkey.
    Down to earth yet a social chameleon
    City slicker that loves the country (minus the bugs) and doesn’t mind getting dirty
    Feminine tom boy/athletic type (for ex, love to fish but won’t bate my own hook or de-hook catches, and I will have makeup on and my toes and long fingernails will be mani-pedi’d!)
    Excellent first mate and boat babe
    Love doing yard work, he’d never have to mow!
    He will have a designated driver since I prefer to drive (always been single, wouldn’t know what it’s like to sit in the passenger seat!!! Think I’d die of boredom!)
    A “Dr. Girlfriend” when he gets boo boos or sick
    Someone who will commit fully (at the appropriate time) and work hard at the relationship and on always improving myself
    And thanks to my 19 y/o daughter, I’ve learned what unconditional love is
    And here’s the kitchen sink while I’m at it…

  • Connie Wright Roberts

    Reply Reply June 9, 2020

    You have some really valid points that make a great deal of sense. Thank you for bringing more thought into the process of not just what I want and need but what value I can provide to a relationship as well.

  • Chrissy Chris

    Reply Reply June 25, 2020

    Great Video Adam Your so inteligente. Everything made sense. Can’t wait to see your other video.

  • Rosebilla

    Reply Reply June 29, 2020

    Hi, I am heart broken right now. I had a relationship.. I meet his family.. he introduced me to them as a friend.. I know from the start, sadly I cought him he has a lot of women, and at this moment one of his women is pregnant.. his sister knows it.. we have a great relationship with his sister. But he and his sister never discuss me regarding this matter.

    Right know I’m still in his house pretending I didn’t know anything. I loved him so much and I want to understand him.

    What should I do Adam?
    Please help me. I’m in pain right know.

  • Sonyette Porter

    Reply Reply July 19, 2020

    I think I always run a man off but I eant to be love but make him chase me

  • Lea Williams

    Reply Reply August 4, 2020

    Where were you 3 years ago? Love this!!!!

  • Joanne

    Reply Reply April 3, 2021

    Great stuff Adam, you are the best!

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