Adam, this is the best video I’ve ever seen about commitment and relationships. I now know exactly what I need to do. You’re incredible.

Adam, I love the way you explain things

Right on!

After my divorce, I felt like I was thrown at the wolves with no manual on dating. Had I not known Adam’s amazing videos, I would’ve made the same stupid mistakes over and over and over again. I enjoy dating now than I ever had in my 20s. It is challenging and painful, but there is more growth and opportunity because Adam taught me how to cut my losses and choose my battles. His texts in his “Love Texting” book work like a charm. I highly recommend this to every woman out there whether you are single and still in the dating pool or in a committed relationship. You will not regret it 🙂 More power to you, Adam!

This is your best video yet!

Thank you for giving us pattern of searching good partner ….So help me God.

Great video and Advice. I am 21 and I always end up with the wrong guys and notice by watching your videos i learnt alot.

Thanks so much for the free video! <3 Always a struggle to balance the emotion and logic as I am a very analytical person… i tend to shut down or anticipate what the outcome of me expressing my feelings will be…. I wrote all of this down and hope to try to implement each step a bit better in my dating life.

I would like to learn more about POWER

This is very insightful and empowering. Empowering not to the point of manipulating men but to hold the power within to reach your goal.
Thank you for this helpful video and thank you, Adam for sharing your expertise on this area. Look forward for more.

Great content!! Thank you!

Thank you for sharing. This is so needed and I hope it will work for me. I am sick of being alone. Hopefully this will work and make me happy again.

Adam,
Watching this video again, after week 2, reminding me that it’s ok to be enotional and feel, but rational about my worth was the shot in the arm. I went out on date 3, invested and too into the ‘what if’. It really helped me to realize that I will give too much too soon, get hurt, resent, have black heart…wait and repeat. No more. I’m aware now….looking forward to how this works.
Glad I found this video series.

Great use of an acronym Adam. A little too wordy prior to getting to the crux of the plan.Thank you for your encouragement!

Thank you so much for your very useful tips, that makes me feel so better now and more confident in my next relationship because I have more knowledge on men and raltionship 🙂
I have to sign up your coaching when I’m in new relationship and want my next relationship to be successful.

Hi Adam,

I really enjoy this video,your advices are very precious.
Where can we have more informations about the “make him earn your worth” part, which seems to me the most difficult to apply?
(sorry for my english i’m french)

Keep going 🙂

Great video…i needed to hear that!!!

Great video

Adam, you hit the nail on the head in so many ways. Everything you said was spot on with the guys I was dating and how I was being treated, guts being emotionally unavailable and how I end up getting hurt. I will be following the 5 steps.

I need to ask a question! If he’s dating someone long-distance for two years and it one time I had a brain, but things got sidetracked we started not to get along, but I’m trying to make it work again the second time, I need advice!

Thank you!.. im so excited to start this.
My worth, i do know is amazing! I bring everything to the table. Im very independent. I take care of everything for my kids and i. I live nicely, clean, have a great career and need nothing. But I’d like to find someone that makes me laugh, appreciates all that i do, talks to me about any problems, and hugs me. I believe in being friends.
Thank you

Awesome video!

This video has hit home on a lot of levels. I will be waiting for the next videos to come out soon.

Thanks, Adam

cant wait to start trying this out!!

This has been helpful! The man I am deeply in love with has told me that he isn’t ready. Now, he is going through a divorce and lives 4 hours away, so it has been difficult to spend time together. We were friends for 11 years before we took the step to attempt a relationship. In fact, he has even said he loves me and I am his best friend. That’s what makes his sudden “I’m not ready” declaration that much more confusing!

You are right on target can’t wait to learn more. looking forward to it thanks

OMG! I needed this information in my life now I just have to apply it. I’m so ready to settle down. I been friends with a guy for 5 years that I think is confused, so I’m not sure if he’s the one for me.

POWER in a relationship needs to be mutual. I realize it’s an acronym for behavior. I think there needs to be more focus on self-worth … what if you realize this guy’s self worth is lacking? I spoke to him about it & he thought I was fanning his ego… yet he agree that he was “not confidant” in himself. I let him go, glad I did too because he went back to his ex-wife !
So… I get to go back to being Open to the right guys, well they don’t come with a sign & a good many who’ve gone through divorce don’t really know what they want anymore! I don’t have a Black Heart…I’m being Rational, logical & emotional, honest & authentic.

Wonderful Blue Print of Dating.

Amazing video! Thank you for this! It all makes so much sense.
I think “Worth” and “Rational” are the two things I need to focus on first, and then the “Earn it”. I’m a very sociable-approachable person. I have an outgoing personality, a good sense of humor and I’ve always had and easy time making friends. However, the moment feelings ‘show up’ for a new guy I met and found attractive it’s as if I become ‘stupid’ all of a sudden… it’s like my brain switches off. All I see in my head are rainbows and butterflies and endless sunshine and … I have almost lost count of how many times I’ve fallen for the wrong guy. As a guy-friend put it ‘it’s like you’re a magnet for doushbags’.
Long story short, YES PLEASE keep it coming! 🙂

Thank you Adam. I’ve just started a brand new relationship with a man who suggested we started dating (and this is after we’ve known each other as friends for almost a decade and have wanted to date) and we’re almost a month along. So far, it’s slow, but I’ve been advised by my brother that this is normal for it to be slow at first – because he wants to be with me for the long run.
However, last week, he whispered ‘us’ to me after a date and since then, he’s been very quiet. I’ve been told when a man initiates that he wants to take it further, he either runs like a bull at a gate, or he takes his time. I think I’m dating a shy guy (I’ve been watching your videos and spotted my man immediately as the shy guy). But seeing we have both lived alone for years, we’re also very much set in our ways… and so we’ve both found we’re very stubborn too – which I find hilarious. 😀

From your video, I’ve been overthinking things with my new man. So, I’ve done the right things – so far – and taken an interest in his life, family and friends. Now, it’s his turn to see how things go. I’ve already invited him to my class reunion as my date… let’s see how it goes.

The video won’t play it says it’s 29 minutes long

Adam have to admit your “tips” work for the young & beautiful not for the middle aged, ugly women.

Thanks for the insight.I feel my kindness is taken for granted.I feel communication is so key but very challenging. Compromise has to be made. It’give and take. I don’the feel like I see the rewards of that. I ‘m accommodating, positive and give space. I guess hearing about the “worth ” stage will be beneficial.
Definitely need to find the right person.I ‘m frustrated with”timing ” always being off!

Love it! Awesomeness! Pure AWESOMENESS

Right on target Adam!! Thank you for sharing and I look forward to your guidance.

Thank you for this video it really helps motivate me to keep being strong, trying to open my heart up to the right guys and get the bigger picture of what I can improve on!!

Thank you for the video. Its very eye-opening and am going to follow this… Thanks alot

my worth, I am smart, educated, I can cook very well, I am not rude or unbecoming, I have my own house, I am fit and healthy, I am kind and patient, I look good and like a classic wear, I am social and very involved in the community, public speaking and run a bed & breakfast, I have met a lot of guys but have a fairly high standard so have not given my heart to anyone since my husband died 5 years ago. Not that I dont know how to have fun, I do and I get on with all my family members, even the difficult ones…truly, its because I understand honour, I love reading, movies and have a general positive and grateful disposition,
But I am still single ??

Thank you, insightful and thoughtful… Needed the reminder and focus.

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Looking forward to more.. Have felt so stuck since my fiancé cheated on me before our wedding. Too many causal relationships and feel like there are no good men left. Hopefully this will make me see things differently

Thank you for this video Adam. It has really opened up my perspective when dating men now. Looking forward to seeing how implementing your strategies will bring results into my personal life from now on.

Uplifting and positive approach.

I met a guy I love but unfortunately he is not willing to commit. however i don’t want to lose him.This video really gives me direction as to what i should do. It is really helpful…

I needed to hear these things many years ago. Now as a senior I will have the relationship I choose.
Been single 33 years not done a lot of dating. Still wanted that beautiful relationship.
My thing to work on is make him earn it.

Great video

Already have blackheart. .now what

Wow. Truly enlightening. I recently cut off someone, today, that was #1 on the Power list! I totally didn’t protect my heart. I knew in my heart from the beginning that he just wanted to just sleep with multiple women and didn’t want anything serious. My mistake was not asking his interests or what he was looking for sooner, and let my feelings grow for him. I put rationality to the side! I knew he had a troubled past with the law, and also that he wouldn’t even be right for me! But, I only saw him for 2 months and had my heart on my sleeve! I treated him with respect, showed him my fun side, showed him my wifey side and we had incredible sex. I hoped he would find love in me. I told him how I felt and it was a blessing to be able to see that I was unimportant to him. He wanted to continue seeing me and gave me so many mixed signals it was detrimental to my mental health trying to figure it all out! I have self worth and I know I don’t deserve that! I am actually happy because I do not have that negativity that I allowed to have. #protect your heart. I love it. Thank you.

I have watched you though a lot and really like what you have to say. I have a lot to learn. Please let me know why I can’t open? If you can. In on a tablet but that shouldn’t matter.

Adam,
Thank you for your wonderful insight into what men want in commitment. I recently became heartbroken when the man I loved, who was my best friend and always said that I was his best friend, cheated on me. He always claimed to not want a relationship, therefore he doesn’t see he did anything wrong. But, for the past 2 years he maintained a monogamous relationship with me. However, when he showed up at his buddy’s house, where I was visiting, with another woman, he told his friend, “thanks for the heads up.” So, this tells me he does know that he’s done something wrong. I don’t know if there is ever a time when you should consider working things out with someone who has cheated. I do know that we had an amazing friendship and an amazing sex life with the best of both worlds. I can recognize what I would need to do differently, if we tried again, but my question is this: Do you believe it could ever work out in the long term, if he was to ask for another chance? I haven’t spoken to him since everything fell apart, because I didn’t want to seem as needy as I certainly felt at the time, but I truly love this man and want a life with him, but not at the expense of my own self-confidence. Any response would be greatly appreciated, as I agonize over this daily.

Best wishes,
Holly 😉

I’m a 53 year old woman who is now divorced after 27 years of marriage with four sons. Boooyyy are things different from 30 years ago. Your “pep” talks have helped me with my self esteem, self worth and online dating in general. Thank you! Can’t wait for the next videos!!

I appreciate the sound advice in your video, and look forward to more. 😊

Dear Adam, Thank You for being so fourth coming with these videos, I totally screwed up from day 1 with ex that lasted 12 n half years with no commitment…real eye opener and now I know what I need to do. thank you for the free videos. please continue sending them.

Thank you. With all the advice out there, this seems to put it all together better than all the bits and pieces. My biggest problem is the R! When you’ve been alone so long and you want love so bad, you find someone that seems to have everything you want, it’s HARD to not want instant gratification when all the hormones are flooding the brain of a girl who wears her heart on her sleeve! I need some exact tools to “over ride” the auto pilot switch the hormones seem to have!!!

Thank you….seems like all men want is to get laid. Thanks for reminding me of my worth

Finally a concrete blue print , makes it easier to wade thru all the bad experiences and see light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks Adam, at least I am set in the right direction.

Looking forward to learning more for sure.

Basically, I have a lot to offer and I know this. But I usually end up in one of two groups, either in the I love you dearly you are like my best friend, but I just want to be friends category, OR the hookup to maybe a friends with benefits situation. The very few guys who have stated they are into me at a deeper level something has prevented them from following through with it.

1. Dude who is a good friend, and my future biz partner, is very much wanting to just be friends because he prefers women to only be 25 to 38 or no more than 10 years older than him, and I just turned 51 even though i look like I am in my mid 30s.

2. Dude had his ex decide to try again and this being the only woman he had ever felt in love with and wanted to marry before she dumped him and broke his heart, he is trying again. We are still friends, and I do hope things work out for him with her since love like that is hard to find.

3. Dude feels like we are too far apart and is scared of feeling the feelings he has for me. Of course I am moving 800 miles closer to him in June or July.

Then I have the guys who just want to have fun and are not planning anything serious, Just dating and sex and maybe a fwb type thing.

All the rest of the guys are just wanting me as a platonic friend, a buddy, or best friend. I have many long time friends with guys that have stood the test of time.

Hi Adam,
This is an epiphany, stumbling onto you on you tube. I have been questioning my WORTH, what am I bringing into my relationship with my very good, very generous and attentive, very challenging bf (said challenging because whatever he does for me, I tried to equal it)
I tried showing him that I am worthy of being a good gf to him. But then, in my alone time I question myself, what is my worth and what am I bringing into my relationship that makes my bf feels positive being with me than being alone. I know that there are factors that affects us women why we acted with our emotions a lot of times. So with that being said, staying RATIONAL and balancing that with our female emotions plays a lot and helps us a lot making the right actions or reactions.
This is heavy and deep for me because I am ready and open to love again fully and I know and I hope in my loving heart and my rational mind that this man loves me the same, coz I know he is my RIGHT guy.

Hi Adam

Thank you, I watched your video and Im going to try to find my worth. After my divorce I really didnt know how to find anyone, when you have been with someone for 22 years starting over is difficult. I am waiting for your other videos, this is the first time Ive stepped out and tried dating after 6 years and its crazy out here i just cant believe what I see and hear. I was ready to step away from dating but now I want to hear the rest of your videos see if I can figure out what men are thinking and how to get them to listen

very good insight. I look forward to the next one but I think I know which ones to avoid…

My worth is that I’m honest, loyal, faithful, trustworthy, hard working, generous, giving, extremely loving, forgiving and hopeful

Thanks for the video. It was great! I will Definitely be focusing on the “W” in the word power! My worth!

Adam,
Love your videos very down to earth & you present very well! I enjoyed the power segment I can relate to all of this as I am sure alot of people can.
Tk you 🙂

This is such a great video and you put it all out there and I love that! Can not wait for next video!

First I would like to say thank you. I really trust you it’s a lots BS videos & misleading information I appreciate your honesty & by you showing your face means a lot… Answer … My {W} I’m fun. Honest, authentic faithful , intelligent , interesting with life projects well define, happy living a peaceful quality life spiritual very social high morals I know my self pretty well self-love with a fully understanding of in responsable of my complete & unique self… I’m not like anyone else no matter how temping could be. I will. Not fall for it. Respectful beautiful, unique live& move in the circle of love.

Adam, I keep watching all of your videos on youtube. I learnt a lot, so thank you so much. You know what, the tone of your performance what gives me extra superpower. I cant imagine the energy in your voice. So thank you all your effort you put into it