Adam, this is the best video I’ve ever seen about commitment and relationships. I now know exactly what I need to do. You’re incredible.

Great video Adam. Living your best life IS all about a shift in awareness and thought, which you articulate well. I like your POWER acronym. The tools that you outline are a great foundation for each aspect of anyone life. I’m looking forward to your next video in the series. I’m excited for where you journey leads you.

Adam nice touch with the outdoor scenery and the suit. Loved the comment…men commit if being with you is more positive than being single. I was a bride but now living a separation (husband disconnected and he has chosen to focus elsewhere). Excited about the next phase of my life and one day being with a man that cherishes me and my two little girls!!

Thanks so much for the free video! <3 Always a struggle to balance the emotion and logic as I am a very analytical person… i tend to shut down or anticipate what the outcome of me expressing my feelings will be…. I wrote all of this down and hope to try to implement each step a bit better in my dating life.

I would like to learn more about POWER

Great content!! Thank you!

Thank you for sharing. This is so needed and I hope it will work for me. I am sick of being alone. Hopefully this will work and make me happy again.

Adam,
Watching this video again, after week 2, reminding me that it’s ok to be enotional and feel, but rational about my worth was the shot in the arm. I went out on date 3, invested and too into the ‘what if’. It really helped me to realize that I will give too much too soon, get hurt, resent, have black heart…wait and repeat. No more. I’m aware now….looking forward to how this works.
Glad I found this video series.

Great use of an acronym Adam. A little too wordy prior to getting to the crux of the plan.Thank you for your encouragement!

Thank you so much for your very useful tips, that makes me feel so better now and more confident in my next relationship because I have more knowledge on men and raltionship 🙂
I have to sign up your coaching when I’m in new relationship and want my next relationship to be successful.

Hi Adam,

I really enjoy this video,your advices are very precious.
Where can we have more informations about the “make him earn your worth” part, which seems to me the most difficult to apply?
(sorry for my english i’m french)

Keep going 🙂

Great video…i needed to hear that!!!

Great video

Adam, you hit the nail on the head in so many ways. Everything you said was spot on with the guys I was dating and how I was being treated, guts being emotionally unavailable and how I end up getting hurt. I will be following the 5 steps.

I need to ask a question! If he’s dating someone long-distance for two years and it one time I had a brain, but things got sidetracked we started not to get along, but I’m trying to make it work again the second time, I need advice!

Thank you!.. im so excited to start this.
My worth, i do know is amazing! I bring everything to the table. Im very independent. I take care of everything for my kids and i. I live nicely, clean, have a great career and need nothing. But I’d like to find someone that makes me laugh, appreciates all that i do, talks to me about any problems, and hugs me. I believe in being friends.
Thank you

POWER in a relationship needs to be mutual. I realize it’s an acronym for behavior. I think there needs to be more focus on self-worth … what if you realize this guy’s self worth is lacking? I spoke to him about it & he thought I was fanning his ego… yet he agree that he was “not confidant” in himself. I let him go, glad I did too because he went back to his ex-wife !
So… I get to go back to being Open to the right guys, well they don’t come with a sign & a good many who’ve gone through divorce don’t really know what they want anymore! I don’t have a Black Heart…I’m being Rational, logical & emotional, honest & authentic.

Wonderful Blue Print of Dating.

Amazing video! Thank you for this! It all makes so much sense.
I think “Worth” and “Rational” are the two things I need to focus on first, and then the “Earn it”. I’m a very sociable-approachable person. I have an outgoing personality, a good sense of humor and I’ve always had and easy time making friends. However, the moment feelings ‘show up’ for a new guy I met and found attractive it’s as if I become ‘stupid’ all of a sudden… it’s like my brain switches off. All I see in my head are rainbows and butterflies and endless sunshine and … I have almost lost count of how many times I’ve fallen for the wrong guy. As a guy-friend put it ‘it’s like you’re a magnet for doushbags’.
Long story short, YES PLEASE keep it coming! 🙂

Thank you Adam. I’ve just started a brand new relationship with a man who suggested we started dating (and this is after we’ve known each other as friends for almost a decade and have wanted to date) and we’re almost a month along. So far, it’s slow, but I’ve been advised by my brother that this is normal for it to be slow at first – because he wants to be with me for the long run.
However, last week, he whispered ‘us’ to me after a date and since then, he’s been very quiet. I’ve been told when a man initiates that he wants to take it further, he either runs like a bull at a gate, or he takes his time. I think I’m dating a shy guy (I’ve been watching your videos and spotted my man immediately as the shy guy). But seeing we have both lived alone for years, we’re also very much set in our ways… and so we’ve both found we’re very stubborn too – which I find hilarious. 😀

From your video, I’ve been overthinking things with my new man. So, I’ve done the right things – so far – and taken an interest in his life, family and friends. Now, it’s his turn to see how things go. I’ve already invited him to my class reunion as my date… let’s see how it goes.

The video won’t play it says it’s 29 minutes long

Adam have to admit your “tips” work for the young & beautiful not for the middle aged, ugly women.

Thanks for the insight.I feel my kindness is taken for granted.I feel communication is so key but very challenging. Compromise has to be made. It’give and take. I don’the feel like I see the rewards of that. I ‘m accommodating, positive and give space. I guess hearing about the “worth ” stage will be beneficial.
Definitely need to find the right person.I ‘m frustrated with”timing ” always being off!

Love it! Awesomeness! Pure AWESOMENESS

Right on target Adam!! Thank you for sharing and I look forward to your guidance.

Thank you for this video it really helps motivate me to keep being strong, trying to open my heart up to the right guys and get the bigger picture of what I can improve on!!

Thank you for the video. Its very eye-opening and am going to follow this… Thanks alot

my worth, I am smart, educated, I can cook very well, I am not rude or unbecoming, I have my own house, I am fit and healthy, I am kind and patient, I look good and like a classic wear, I am social and very involved in the community, public speaking and run a bed & breakfast, I have met a lot of guys but have a fairly high standard so have not given my heart to anyone since my husband died 5 years ago. Not that I dont know how to have fun, I do and I get on with all my family members, even the difficult ones…truly, its because I understand honour, I love reading, movies and have a general positive and grateful disposition,
But I am still single ??

Thank you, insightful and thoughtful… Needed the reminder and focus.

N

Looking forward to more.. Have felt so stuck since my fiancé cheated on me before our wedding. Too many causal relationships and feel like there are no good men left. Hopefully this will make me see things differently

Thank you for this video Adam. It has really opened up my perspective when dating men now. Looking forward to seeing how implementing your strategies will bring results into my personal life from now on.

Uplifting and positive approach.

I met a guy I love but unfortunately he is not willing to commit. however i don’t want to lose him.This video really gives me direction as to what i should do. It is really helpful…

I needed to hear these things many years ago. Now as a senior I will have the relationship I choose.
Been single 33 years not done a lot of dating. Still wanted that beautiful relationship.
My thing to work on is make him earn it.

Great video

Already have blackheart. .now what

Wow. Truly enlightening. I recently cut off someone, today, that was #1 on the Power list! I totally didn’t protect my heart. I knew in my heart from the beginning that he just wanted to just sleep with multiple women and didn’t want anything serious. My mistake was not asking his interests or what he was looking for sooner, and let my feelings grow for him. I put rationality to the side! I knew he had a troubled past with the law, and also that he wouldn’t even be right for me! But, I only saw him for 2 months and had my heart on my sleeve! I treated him with respect, showed him my fun side, showed him my wifey side and we had incredible sex. I hoped he would find love in me. I told him how I felt and it was a blessing to be able to see that I was unimportant to him. He wanted to continue seeing me and gave me so many mixed signals it was detrimental to my mental health trying to figure it all out! I have self worth and I know I don’t deserve that! I am actually happy because I do not have that negativity that I allowed to have. #protect your heart. I love it. Thank you.

I have watched you though a lot and really like what you have to say. I have a lot to learn. Please let me know why I can’t open? If you can. In on a tablet but that shouldn’t matter.

Adam,
Thank you for your wonderful insight into what men want in commitment. I recently became heartbroken when the man I loved, who was my best friend and always said that I was his best friend, cheated on me. He always claimed to not want a relationship, therefore he doesn’t see he did anything wrong. But, for the past 2 years he maintained a monogamous relationship with me. However, when he showed up at his buddy’s house, where I was visiting, with another woman, he told his friend, “thanks for the heads up.” So, this tells me he does know that he’s done something wrong. I don’t know if there is ever a time when you should consider working things out with someone who has cheated. I do know that we had an amazing friendship and an amazing sex life with the best of both worlds. I can recognize what I would need to do differently, if we tried again, but my question is this: Do you believe it could ever work out in the long term, if he was to ask for another chance? I haven’t spoken to him since everything fell apart, because I didn’t want to seem as needy as I certainly felt at the time, but I truly love this man and want a life with him, but not at the expense of my own self-confidence. Any response would be greatly appreciated, as I agonize over this daily.

Best wishes,
Holly 😉

I’m a 53 year old woman who is now divorced after 27 years of marriage with four sons. Boooyyy are things different from 30 years ago. Your “pep” talks have helped me with my self esteem, self worth and online dating in general. Thank you! Can’t wait for the next videos!!

I appreciate the sound advice in your video, and look forward to more. 😊

Dear Adam, Thank You for being so fourth coming with these videos, I totally screwed up from day 1 with ex that lasted 12 n half years with no commitment…real eye opener and now I know what I need to do. thank you for the free videos. please continue sending them.

Thank you. With all the advice out there, this seems to put it all together better than all the bits and pieces. My biggest problem is the R! When you’ve been alone so long and you want love so bad, you find someone that seems to have everything you want, it’s HARD to not want instant gratification when all the hormones are flooding the brain of a girl who wears her heart on her sleeve! I need some exact tools to “over ride” the auto pilot switch the hormones seem to have!!!

Thank you….seems like all men want is to get laid. Thanks for reminding me of my worth

Finally a concrete blue print , makes it easier to wade thru all the bad experiences and see light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks Adam, at least I am set in the right direction.

Looking forward to learning more for sure.

Basically, I have a lot to offer and I know this. But I usually end up in one of two groups, either in the I love you dearly you are like my best friend, but I just want to be friends category, OR the hookup to maybe a friends with benefits situation. The very few guys who have stated they are into me at a deeper level something has prevented them from following through with it.

1. Dude who is a good friend, and my future biz partner, is very much wanting to just be friends because he prefers women to only be 25 to 38 or no more than 10 years older than him, and I just turned 51 even though i look like I am in my mid 30s.

2. Dude had his ex decide to try again and this being the only woman he had ever felt in love with and wanted to marry before she dumped him and broke his heart, he is trying again. We are still friends, and I do hope things work out for him with her since love like that is hard to find.

3. Dude feels like we are too far apart and is scared of feeling the feelings he has for me. Of course I am moving 800 miles closer to him in June or July.

Then I have the guys who just want to have fun and are not planning anything serious, Just dating and sex and maybe a fwb type thing.

All the rest of the guys are just wanting me as a platonic friend, a buddy, or best friend. I have many long time friends with guys that have stood the test of time.

Hi Adam,
This is an epiphany, stumbling onto you on you tube. I have been questioning my WORTH, what am I bringing into my relationship with my very good, very generous and attentive, very challenging bf (said challenging because whatever he does for me, I tried to equal it)
I tried showing him that I am worthy of being a good gf to him. But then, in my alone time I question myself, what is my worth and what am I bringing into my relationship that makes my bf feels positive being with me than being alone. I know that there are factors that affects us women why we acted with our emotions a lot of times. So with that being said, staying RATIONAL and balancing that with our female emotions plays a lot and helps us a lot making the right actions or reactions.
This is heavy and deep for me because I am ready and open to love again fully and I know and I hope in my loving heart and my rational mind that this man loves me the same, coz I know he is my RIGHT guy.

Hi Adam

Thank you, I watched your video and Im going to try to find my worth. After my divorce I really didnt know how to find anyone, when you have been with someone for 22 years starting over is difficult. I am waiting for your other videos, this is the first time Ive stepped out and tried dating after 6 years and its crazy out here i just cant believe what I see and hear. I was ready to step away from dating but now I want to hear the rest of your videos see if I can figure out what men are thinking and how to get them to listen

very good insight. I look forward to the next one but I think I know which ones to avoid…

My worth is that I’m honest, loyal, faithful, trustworthy, hard working, generous, giving, extremely loving, forgiving and hopeful

Thanks for the video. It was great! I will Definitely be focusing on the “W” in the word power! My worth!

Adam,
Love your videos very down to earth & you present very well! I enjoyed the power segment I can relate to all of this as I am sure alot of people can.
Tk you 🙂

This is such a great video and you put it all out there and I love that! Can not wait for next video!

First I would like to say thank you. I really trust you it’s a lots BS videos & misleading information I appreciate your honesty & by you showing your face means a lot… Answer … My {W} I’m fun. Honest, authentic faithful , intelligent , interesting with life projects well define, happy living a peaceful quality life spiritual very social high morals I know my self pretty well self-love with a fully understanding of in responsable of my complete & unique self… I’m not like anyone else no matter how temping could be. I will. Not fall for it. Respectful beautiful, unique live& move in the circle of love.

Adam, I keep watching all of your videos on youtube. I learnt a lot, so thank you so much. You know what, the tone of your performance what gives me extra superpower. I cant imagine the energy in your voice. So thank you all your effort you put into it

Hi Adam …. this is great advice not only for romantic relationships, but for any relationship you have in life — friendships as well as professional. If only I had thought about this sooner, I would have made different choices. But the past is past and I’m looking toward the future. You ask what I would work on first — Knowing my self worth. I bring a lot to the table. I’m financially stable, have a quirky sense of humor, very intelligent and pretty laid back about most topics. As I move through the relationships in my life, not just the romantic ones, I’ll be reminding myself what I bring to that relationship. Thank you!

I needed this today. I stay disciplined with my emotions but struggle to understand why I do so. Thank you for identifying the need for a balance between P and O. This entire system is astounding to me, the value it has. Again, thank you.

Also, I am at the start of my career. As I build it, I will reference your material more since I work in social settings and am human. I may consider other options you offer in the future.

Thank you, love your videos.

Great video with great advice!

I loved this video. It has so much information to use in the real world of dating. I cant wait for the next one. Thanks Adam

I am only listening I really have given up but you make a lot of sense

I got to say, I really like the randomly selected emoji’s! That’s a nice touch thank you for all that you do. I attended your webinar this week, and I would’ve signed up for your coaching except that I’m not sure that I’m quite ready or in the right place at the right time to sign up for the webinar.

Thank you for sharing your knowledge of relationships. I look for to listening to more.

Well said Adam. My bar had lowered to a ridiculous level probably equal to my self esteem. Your Vegas example made it very clear why I don’t get respect. Thx for giving me a clue how to get it.

I am a very good catch; upbeat, creative,affectionate, love touching (too much), outgoing, healthy ( I’m pretty old, so not a given), playful and perceptive. I can cook real well, well traveled etc. I look darn good too.

Let’s see if working your POWER method gets me back in love for 2018.

I know i am worth it ..i dont know if he knows that

Thank you for sharing; this definitely looks interesting!

I’m 64 and after10 months he told me that he loves me. He’s 63. We’ve never even kissed. Now that he’s said it, he’s backing up. I stay feminine but I think he scared himself. What do I do?

Wonderful advice…..Thank you

Sound advice. I look forward to future content to put into action.

Wow… This is really an eye-opener especially I’ve been to casual relationships and the last relationship that i had is much worst than I thought it would be. This is just on of the things that can help me improve my aspects of being in a romantic relationship.

Love this, Thank You so much xx

loved your energy! I need to learn how to make guys EARN me

Thanks so much for the POWERful advice, Adam. Starting to date again at 50, in a completely different world, your advice has been priceless. Took over half my life to realize we have the power. Looking forward to the next video and more enlightenment in the dating world.
All the Best,
Erin

I don’t understand how I got where I am now. From a strong relationship to sitting in a weird friend zone. I’m heartbroken.

Adam,

I needed this video….it is great.
I have been out of the dating world for a long time.
My husband past away some time ago leaving me alone. Think of your Mom after 40 years of marriage. The wants and needs are the same for every age group. I had a wonderful husband….but life must go on. I hope not to finish off my life alone.
Unfortunately, I seem to attract married men…unhappy married men. They all want to leave their unhappy life. Yes, you taught how to protect your heart. Is that the first question you ask a man….and will they be truthful. How do you come straight to the point asking the question are you married? I know my worth and plan to stay positive with that worth.
You are great!
Thanks……

on the personal side: looking to take the power strategy from friend zone to committed
for business: I know my worth but I give too much, need to make them earn it versus giving it away for free. Have a line and walk away / protect myself from the wrong person

Great video. Just trying to figure out how to do all that in a long distance relationship…

Hi Adam…im glad to watch your video..

Excellent information

Thank you for the video! I have been utilizing the POWER blueprint and am currently in a wonderful relationship with a guy who is showing his interest and commitment so far! 🙂

What breaks my heart is he wanted the same thing. I left him alone then he would start contacting me again, so I gave in then he backed away again, saying he doesn’t want a relationship…kinda like cat and mouse. Now Im going through the withdrawls again, trying to get strong again. Ugh, it’s so hard.

Thank you Adam for your advice, I just don’t know what to do.

Thanks, Adam! Loved this approach; the outdoor scene in front of your parents’ wedding site is very effective, even moving. I agree that Worth is the most important element in your plan. Thank you!

I bring love, loyalty, laughter, , partnership to the relationship. Looking forward to your program.

Thank you!!! Can’t wait for the rest of the videos!! My current situation now and at our age it’s maddening.

Thanks for sharing this powerful empowering tool for women. I think I need to learn more about what works with guys as I’m getting out of a long term relationship. Not sure about dating again as it’s very scary out there. This helps me not feel so anxious about it.

Am just 20 this year getting your knowledge hope of blissful love life I get
Thanks sir for being a blessing to me as I needed

Very interesting information. However, as good your advise might be referring to someone as a “fucking person” diminishes your credibility as a professional. Clean up your mouth so you can be taken more seriously and not appear as just some other guy out there.

good video and content,
i tend to push men away, before they hurt me.

The advice has helped me filter my responses to men . I’ve always been a willing,warm optimistic Lamb to the freedom fighters and other types of ………..”.should be Next guys” .
I didnt see or recognise them hey i do now !
I see now i am not faulty. Now i acknowledge my self worth shut down the leary conversations and reject the booty calls . Its been hard but ive met a “pilgrim” who i will take the time to grow a relationship with . The fires there but im not going to let the Dopamine and lust de-rail a very good kind man. Bye bye all these freedom fighter
Many thanks . C from Scotlland